Suction Cup Dildo Solutions

Lots of silicone suction cup dildos, different colors, realistic and fantasy dildos

Suction cup dildos pictured, left to right: Ruse Magic Stick; ColourSoft 8″, Real Nude Ergo, Twin Tail Creations Cortez, Tantus Alan, Xenocat Artifacts Caiman, Bad Dragon Nox, Firefly 5″ Pleasures.

Looking to screw yourself hands-free? Or does your wrist just need a break every now and then? If so, a suction cup dildo is the obvious choice, but it’s easy to miss that there are lots of options beyond the typical (usually realistic) dildo with a built-in suction cup. For the past several years, I’ve tested lots of different suction cup toys and lots of different suction cup positions too, and here’s what I’ve discovered:

  1. Yes, many silicone dildos do have built-in suction cups. Besides the realistic kind, there are also more-abstract and fantasy options. But be careful not to buy suction cup dildos made out of PVC, TPR, “realistic feel” materials, latex, etc., because these are not bodysafe.
  2. Dildos with bullet holes (for a small, bullet-style vibe) typically will also fit the Tantus suction cup attachment.
  3. Toy mounts (like Liberator sex pillows) allow you to put a dildo in a hole in the pillow. 
  4. Buy a thigh harness, put any dildo in it, and wrap it around your favorite (flat) pillow to ride.
  5. Buy double-sided suction cups (these are PVC, or see NYTC’s silicone one!) to stick on the flat base of any toy.

Built-In-Suction-Cup Dildos

This is the category with the most options, so I’m going to tackle it first; it won’t be a complete listing because there really are a lot of options. I’ve broken them down into realistic, semi-realistic, and fantasy categories below.

Realistic

Most realistic, suction-cup dildos are inexpensive because they’re mass-produced in China. These cheaper options include:

The dildos listed above may be great for some people, but their silicone tends to run a bit firm, probably around the 20A-shore range.1 Thankfully, there are also a few softer realistic options with built-in suction cups:

ColourSoft 8 suction cup dildo

Semi-Realistic/Abstract

Here are some details about quality, semi-realistic toys with suction cup bases:

Other options include the Packer Gear silicone line, which I haven’t tried; and the Maia Kendall and Maia Riley lines, which I strongly dislike because the silicone is extra firm and does not bend at all with my body (also, I didn’t find the suction cup of my Maia Kendall that great; it was passable).

I would strongly recommend against the CalExotics Silicone Emperor Vibrating line because the PVC suction cups screw off the silicone dongs, leaving the battery compartments exposed. This means that you can neither boil the toys nor soak them in a 10%-bleach solution: they’re impossible to fully sanitize.

Fantasy

Some (not all) of Bad Dragon’s and Exotic Erotics’ toys come with this option. Twin Tail Creations is a good option too: a suction cup can be added to all their current toys. Or there’s Scifi Erotics, whose huge-headed Zuklat the Dayneb (my review here) has a sturdy suction cup.

Twin Tail Creations Cortez suction cup fantasy dildo

Twin Tail Creations’ Cortez has an excellent suction cup.

For me, the biggest benefit of fantasy toys is that they typically come in softer densities: they’re much more yielding to the touch, and flexible inside your body. Plus there are so many textures available! Read more about why I love fantasy sex toys here.

Bullet-Hole Dildos + Tantus Suction Cup

I highly recommend Tantus’ suction cup accessoryIt’s high-quality silicone that sticks well. It can still detach itself from more textured surfaces (like a bumpy, painted wall), but it works great on smooth surfaces. You can insert the Tantus suction cup in any dildo with a standard bullet hole in place of a bullet vibe. Here are my top bullet-holed picks:

Toy Mounts

Liberator, the leading brand in sex positioning pillows, offers two toy mounts for hands-free riding: the Wing, at 24″ long x 15″ wide x 9″ high; and the smaller (but taller) BonBon, at 15″ long x 8.5″ wide x 12″ high. Or buy the Wing or BonBon from Liberator on Amazon; this is one of the few toys that I would recommend getting there, since many dildos and vibes on Amazon claim to be body-safe but are actually made of porous materials.4

I recently bought a Liberator Wing, and I think it’s very nice for simulating cowgirl overall. I do have an issue with it: the dildo hole is not very wide. I have to struggle to fit even my small (flared) base Tantus realistics in, and my Vixen Large Realistic Bent is even more of a challenge. I managed to start tearing stitches out of the lining over the foam core within just a couple days. The problem is that the pocket is meant to hold small, thinner vibes too, so that the rider can grind against them. (I wish Liberator would make a toy mount with a hole specifically for medium- to large-sized dildos instead of one that you have to struggle to get your flared base into.) Still, I’ve had some really great orgasms riding toys on it, and it saves my wrists, so I guess I shouldn’t complain too much!

Thigh Harness

VixSkin Maverick thigh harnessIt’s certainly possible to wrap a thigh harness around a very flat (or abnormally small) pillow. But I found it awkward to position all my pillows comfortably, and they didn’t have the resistance that a Liberator pillow’s firm foam has. I also tried wrapping the harness around a lumbar support pillow, but that ended up being too short and also a bit awkward to position. I tried to solve this problem by adding towels underneath the pillow, which was slightly better but still a little awkward. If you’re less of a perfectionist than I am, this solution might work fine for you.

Double-Sided Suction Cups

A couple kinds of double-sided PVC suction cups I tested.

Finally, if you have the perfect (but sadly suction-cup-less dildo) already, and you either want to pound it standing up or don’t want to spend the money on a Liberator pillow, then check out some double-sided suction cups.

When I first wrote this post, I could only find PVC double-sided suction cups (more on that next). But now New York Toy Collective has released silicone double-sided suction cup for only $13. I’ve just gotten one and will report back soon (by February 2018) about how well it holds various dildos.

I liked this set of cheap suction cups I bought on Amazon, because the multiple stickers adhere really well to flat surfaces and can hold a good amount of weight. This solution is so simple, but there was one unfortunate side effect: the (PVC) suction cups smell. I definitely made sure to wash my silicone toys well after using them, to remove any plasticizers that might have leached onto the base.

I don’t typically fuck my washing machine, but when I do, the dildo better damn well stay in place—and this one did!

If you found this guide useful, please consider buying through the affiliate links used in this post. You pay the same price as you would normally—or 10% less at some of my affiliates when you use my discount codes—and I earn a few bucks so I can justify all the time I spend trying to write quality sex toy reviews and keeping the Silicone Dildo Guide totally up-to-date.

I strongly recommend Peepshow Toys, SheVibe, VibrantGood Vibrations, and Tantus. Lovehoney also carries a wide range of options, though many are not body-safe. See my Where to Shop post for even more options.

  1. See my Silicone Dildo Firmnesses page for more info.
  2. Woody, Leo, and Mistress also have vibrating versions, which you can stick a Tantus suction cup into. See later in this post for more about that option.
  3. In my experience, “soft” often means “not absolutely rock hard” in silicone toy descriptions.
  4. I want to burn  and cut into one of these Anfei “dual layer liquid silicone” dildos so bad. Mass-produced silicone dildos do not have a different-colored head like that, nor does the outer layer of (actual) silicone pull away from the core.

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