Best Suction Cup Dildos: Hands-Free & Body-Safe Listing

The best suction cup dildos are made of body-safe platinum silicone. Some are very realistic dildos, while other are abstract or dragon-shaped! Over the past 5 years, I’ve tested lots of different suction cup toys and lots of different suction cup positions too, and here’s what I’ve discovered:

  1. Many silicone dildos have built-in suction cups. From realistic penis-shapes to abstract and “fantasy” options, I always recommend silicone because it’s the only body-safe material for suction cup dildos: PVC, TPR/TPE, UR3, latex, and “rubber” toys are porous and potentially toxic!
  2. Dildos with bullet holes (for a small, bullet-style vibe) typically will also fit the Tantus suction cup attachment. Vac-U-Lock-holed toys + Doc Johnson’s suction cup work the same way.
  3. Buy double-sided suction cups (like these customizable ones!) to stick on the flat base of most suction-cup-less dildos.
  4. Dildo mounts (like Liberator sex pillows) allow you to put a dildo in a hole in the pillow and then ride away.
  5. Buy a thigh harness, put any dildo in it, and wrap it around your favorite (flat) pillow to ride.
silicone suction cup dildos

P.S. If you’re looking for a dildo stick, a dildo with handle, your answer is: The Grip Lock Handle + Suction Cup attachment set, which fits into Vac-style holed dildos (discussed in this section below!).

Built-In-Suction-Cup Dildos

There are a lot of silicone suction cupped options, but these are the ones I feel really confident recommending as quality, safe toys. I’ve broken them down into realistic, semi-realistic, and fantasy categories below.

Realistic

Realistic-looking silicone dildos are a dime a dozen, but the ones I’m listing in this section deliver a gentler, more realistic feel too:

  • Triple-density with a great suction cup! & My favorite shower dildo. I’m over the moon about the Pleasure Tailor Triarx’s balance of 3 silicone densities all together, in this custom G-spot (or prostate) dildo I designed.
  • Want it bigger? SquarePegToys was the very first toymaker to use SuperSoft (squishy & fleshy!) 100% platinum silicone, handmade in the USA, and is known for stretching-friendly sizing. A “FlushCup” suction cup base is an option on all toys here. My absolute favorite is Nathan 1X, truly my favorite realistic to really pound. I had to update 4 dildo guides to include this toy after I got it and realized how much I love it! Mmm, SuperSoft Bronze.
SquarePegToys Nathan dildo shower
Suggestion: Pick you up a good hybrid lube for the shower—no, it will not hurt the silicone. Mmm, Nathan!

Until very recently, pretty much all realistic-looking toys were made of a firmer (≈20A-shore) silicone. This is still the case for the vast majority of realistic-looking dildos: they don’t feel especially realistic, but many people are happy with the firmer stimulation they produce:

Semi-Realistic/Abstract

Here are some details about quality, semi-realistic toys with suction cup bases:

  • The Dildolls silicone dildos by Love-to-Love (a co-company of Strap-On-Me) are softer silicone in very pretty colors, seen above! The top one, Fantasia, has a pastel sherbert drips look, glows in the dark, and is ≈10A shore silicone. The bottom one, Utopia, is slightly softer in the versions I got: it has a jelly-kinda look, but is safe silicone, in pink-to-blue bi-flag-reminiscent colors. And the “Glitzy” Dildolls I would avoid, because many mass-producers are using larger glitter particles than they should be.
  • Addiction Rave dildos are a smooth, pretty-soft silicone outside, with a posable core: 2 marbled colors that glow in the dark. This is my favorite abstract for suction cup play; its 7 inches usable length are long enough for me to use standing up, dildo stuck to the wall.
  • Blush Novelties makes the Avant dildos: brightly striped colorations. The Avant D15 is highly recommended as a beginner dildo, for anal play or first-time vaginal sex, because it’s 1 inch wide at the head, a slim 1.25 inches max. diameter, and semi-soft. The Avant D3 (my review) and D4 have a different base shape that makes the D3 probably the strongest suction cup in my collection.
Blush Avant D3 silicone suction cup dildo bright colors

A final option is the Maia Kendall and Maia Riley, which have passable but not great suction and are quite firm (but silky).

I would recommend against the CalExotics Silicone Emperor Vibrating line because the PVC suction cups screw off the silicone dongs, leaving the battery compartments exposed. This means that you can neither boil the toys nor soak them in a 10%-bleach solution. You could try dousing them in rubbing alcohol, but…there are so many good options out there that don’t include PVC.

Fantasy

Pleasure Forge does amazing marbles, and some toys have suction cup bases, like Wizard and Rogue. My Wizard in 10A is truly my favorite sex toy marble ever.

Some (not all) of Bad Dragon’s and Exotic Erotics’ toys can include a suction cup as an optional add-on.

Twin Tail Creations is a good option too: a suction cup can be added to all their current toys, though it works best on the ones without balls.

Lust Arts has a very nifty-looking Unicorn Horn with an optional suction base and customizable firmness.

Or, if you’re looking for a smaller, cheaper version of BD’s Flint dragon dildo, BMS Factory makes Tom and Ben (review here).

Twin Tail Creations Cortez suction cup fantasy dildo
Twin Tail Creations’ Cortez has an excellent suction cup.

For me, the biggest benefit of fantasy toys is that they typically come in softer densities: they’re much more yielding to the touch, and flexible inside your body. Plus there are so many textures available! Read more about why I love fantasy sex toys here.

Self-Thrusting Dildos with Suction Cups

Do I love self-propelled thrusting toys? Absolutely, enough to write an entire guide to them. They move themselves, for all those times when you want someone to do the work of penetration for you. These ones have suction cups:

Bullet-Hole Dildos + Suction Cup Attachments

Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup

The Vac-U-Lock hole, created by Doc Johnson, is now widely used to stabilize toys. (It fits Vac harnesses, knuckle attachments, fucking machine attachments, and more.) This hole is a good bit wider than the standard bullet hole, especially at the top, so the Tantus suction cup (pictured below and discussed next) and tapered bullets (see the We-Vibe Tango) will wiggle around in these holes—and may even fall out. 

Tantus Suction Cup Attachment Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock suction cup
Tantus suction cup left; Doc Johnson one, right.

Vac-U-Hole dildos are in this guide because there are two Vac-U-Lock suction attachments: the frosted Vac-U-Lock suction cup and the large Vac-U-Lock suction cup (which supposedly holds more weight). I haven’t tried the latter, but I found the former to be OK on flat horizontal surfaces and pretty bad on vertical surfaces. Update: The Boneyard Grip Lock kit has a better suction cup than Doc J. or Tantus! It’ll stick the dildo (any dildo below) well to smooth surfaces.

  • Mr. Hankey’s Toys are comfortably squishy in 75% Soft silicone, and offers an optional Vac-U-Lock hole in all non-Xtra-Small toys (ones that are almost 2″ wide or more). Because of how large the biggest Hankey’s dildos are, neither the Tantus suction cup nor the Vac-U-Lock one will be strong enough to support their weight on even the smoothest wall. (In those cases, the hole is for stability in a harness/on a fuck machine.) Stick to the “BIG but not GINORMOUS” options for best suction cup results. I highly recommend sitting on Topher Michels, for example. This isn’t an exact replica of the Vac plug shape, but fits Vac plugs very well, and is the best fit for bullet vibrators like We-Vibe Tango if you want versatility.
  • SquarePegToys, the original maker of SuperSoft platinum silicone!, offers SquarePegHoles on a number of dildos (again, the toy needs to be about 2 inches thick before a hole is possible). Leo here is an excellent option for deep thrusting with a flexible, comfortable bend: in 2 sizes; and Nathan 1X is my boy, my absolute favorite with the width of its ridge. SquarePegHoles are a little tighter than a vac attachment and lined with ribs: they fit a Vac plug exceptionally well, and will fit most shorter bullet vibes great; We-Vibe Tango original and Sensuelle Point stick out a bit.
  • Uberrime does the Large Splendid with Vac hole, in a stunning 2-color marble. This is pretty soft silicone; the bulbous head really comes through still. This is an exact original Vac insert, so bullet vibes don’t fit.
  • Boneyard makes this thick black cock (100% body-safe silicone!) in a kit with attachable handle OR suction cup base. Semi-soft silicone (5A Shore), tons of skin texture & a nice ridge.
  • John Thomas Toys (UK-based) by default includes a Vac hole and a (PVC) suction cup insert in their silicone dildos. I was pleased to discover that their Soft density is not the semi-firm 15A Shore advertised, but a 2-3A Shore durometer: massive difference, and it makes me suspicious that the manufacturer doesn’t correct their listings to include that fact.
  • Sinnovator (UK-based) also offers Vac hole on all dildos, from fantasy shapes to realistics. These are firmer silicone, it seems: their Etsy shop reports “Soft” as 5A, while the website offers Medium-Soft and Medium firmnesses.
  • Blush’s The Realm dildos have Vac-U-Lock (“Lock On”) holes. These are a 18A-shore silicone (flexible-firm), and I would not recommend Draken the dragon unless you are very comfortable with lots of texture. Use lube.
  • So-so fit: the Pleasure Works dildos “Siren,” “Riley,” and “Cadet” vibrating by Good Vibrations have large bullet holes that are similar to the Vac-U-Lock holes: in two tiers and wider at the deepest part of the hole. The Pleasure Works holes are shorter, though, so the Vac-U-Lock suction cup sticks out an extra two-thirds an inch or so. It’s wiggly, not very secure; wouldn’t recommend on a sex machine with Vac attachment.
  • Doc Johnson has discontinued their silicone dildos with a large true “Vac-U-Lock” hole, POP! Rebel & Icon.

Tantus Suction Cup Attachment

Tantus’ suction cup accessory is a nice add-on if you want your dildo to vibrate sometimes, and be used hands-free other times. One side is a peg that fits into a dildo’s bullet hole, and the other is a suction cup!

It sticks well on very smooth, flat surfaces but can still detach itself from more textured surfaces (like a bumpy, painted wall). Because the suction cup isn’t actually part of the dildo’s base, toys wiggle around move on it. That’s why I prefer it the Tantus suction cup on horizontal surfaces (like my fave nightstand) so I have best control over the angle!

Vixen Creations Woody Vibrating + Tantus suction cup.

Insert the Tantus suction cup in any dildo with a standard bullet hole in place of a bullet vibe. Here are my top bullet-holed picks:

Double-Sided Suction Cups

If you have the perfect (but sadly suction-cup-less dildo) already, then check out some double-sided suction cups. For these, silicone is an ideal option because (unlike PVC) it can be sanitized after you drip fluids and lube onto the detachable suction cup, and your quality toys are sure to stay safe.

Lust Arts recently released a silicone double-sided suction cup. I love that you can customize its size, to better fit your fave dildo base (hint: large is usually the way), and you can also order custom colors. I’m currently testing how strong several of these are, and so far the large + large combo has held on really well—like on VixSkin Johnny!

New York Toy Collective also has a Double Sided Suction Cup that’s very affordable, at $10. I think it’s a really great solution for smooth surfaces. Read my full review to see exactly what toys and surfaces it does and doesn’t work with; it tends to fall off painted walls, for example.

New York Toy Collective Double-Sided Suction Cup Tantus Vamp Super Soft 1200px
The Tantus Vamp Super Soft, with NYTC suction cup underneath.

Dildo Mounts

Liberator, the leading brand in sex positioning pillows, now offers three toy mounts for hands-free riding that’ll accommodate a dildo:

Overall, I’ve had some really great orgasms riding dildos in the Liberator Wing works well for simulating cowgirl style, and it saves my wrists. My one minor issue with it: the dildo hole isn’t very wide because it’s meant to hold smaller vibes too. Getting average-girth dildos in requires some wiggling, not to mention the larger ones. But after the toy is in place, the Wing is a good deal.

If your toy already has a suction cup, consider the T.O.M. dildo mount (read my full review here). It’s made of plastic, so not as comfortable to sit on, but it offers multiple angles and is better geared toward doggy style. Shorter users may find the top mount a bit tall (especially with longer dildos), while taller women and most men may find the angled sides too short.

I’m in the “taller” camp, so my best dildo mount experience there was pairing the T.O.M. v.2 with the Velvet Thruster Mini Teddy self-thrusting dildo! The Mini’s suction cup will usually detach, but it stays in place inside T.O.M.’s circle-inlaid top.

Also, for anal play and taller legs!: The Easy Squat system anchors a Vac-U-Lock dildo (a thicker toy with an insert hole in its base) onto an 11-inch dildo mount. It’s just the right height for me to kneel over and take a 6 inch dildo (Steve actual size for the win). The plastic, with drip reservoirs, is also easy to wipe down. Get this for big toys or deep anal, it’s more secure than T.O.M. or the Liberator mounts. The downside is that you really need to go straight up and down with the riding; it’s not a mount for doggy style.

Thigh Harness

VixSkin Maverick thigh harness

It’s certainly possible to wrap a thigh harness — like the affordable Sportsheets one pictured above —around a very flat (or abnormally small) pillow. But I found it awkward to position all my pillows comfortably, and they didn’t have the resistance that a Liberator pillow’s firm foam has. I also tried wrapping the harness around a lumbar support pillow, but that ended up being too short and also a bit awkward to position. I tried to solve this problem by adding towels underneath the pillow, which was slightly better but still a little awkward. If you’re less of a perfectionist than I am, this solution might work fine for you.

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Notes

  1. Don’t confuse these with Colours 2X dual density TPE, which is porous and shouldn’t be used long-term.
  2. Woody, Leo, and Mistress also have vibrating versions, which you can stick a Tantus suction cup into. See later in this post for more about that option.
  3. This is one of the few toy-related purchases that I would recommend from Amazon, since many dildos and vibes on Amazon claim to be body-safe but are actually made of porous materials. (I want to flame-test and cut into one of these Anfei “dual layer liquid silicone” dildos so bad. The way the outer layer pulls away from the core in one of the product pics makes me suspicious!)

18 thoughts on “Best Suction Cup Dildos: Hands-Free & Body-Safe Listing”

  1. I’ve always wanted to try one like this! Have you ever heard the terrible story about a girl masturbating anally with her dildo stuck to her bedroom door and her mom walks in swings the door open and then is shocked and slams it shut again 😀

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  2. Your guides are so helpful! I recently got the NYTC double-sided suction cup, but find it pretty hit-or-miss. It suctions to my dildos well, but not to other surfaces.

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  3. This is so helpful! Any experience with the LoveArc? It looks so tempting, but it’s expensive and probably not the most easily disguised package…

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  4. As always, love your toy guides!

    When it comes to tricky surfaces, I love using squares of transparent packing tape on textured surfaces to convert them into usable ones. If the surface is really bumpy, layering the squares of tape can also help.

    Once you rub all the bubbles out, it almost looks invisible to the naked eye as well, so it’s easy to leave it in your favorite spot.

    Hopefully, this can help you with your tricky walls and feel free to share the knowledge with your audience if you find this helpful!

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  5. Hi,

    I was wondering if there are any good alternatives to the vac-u-lock suction cups?
    I have a bunch of vac u lock toys that I use sometimes with my machine but most of the time I don’t want to have to set it up so would rather use a suction cup in the shower.
    Problem is that the official suction cups are really bad.

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    • Sorry for the slow reply! The problem is that no, I really don’t think there are any good alternatives. There’s a large Vac-U-Lock suction cup, but the suction cup is still think and not deep. Please do let me know if you find a better alternative, because I’ve looked before and *nada*.

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  6. Love the guide.

    The best double sided suction cup I have found is the Lust Arts suction cup. It keeps the toy straighter and doesn’t flop as much as the New York Collective suction cup. I find it will also stick to surfaces that the NYC one won’t. It also adds a couple of inches of length for those positions that are hard to reach. Definitely a must have for any collection.

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  7. Hi Felicity! If you see this, do you know if the Lust Arts suction cups would work for something that already sort of has a suction cup, and whether that would affect sizing? I’m looking into buying one that might work for my Vixen Mustang, since I love it, but I can’t get it to stick to anything.

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    • OMG, yes, I tried that, and the way Mustang’s base is shaped, it’s a conflict with the large suction cup size from Lust Arts, and the medium one isn’t very stable either.

      Have you tried using more force with Mustang’s built-in suction cup? My experience is that it only works if you slam it down onto a smooth surface. The extra force will remove some air from the cavity and at least create some seal.

      Thanks for reading!!!

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    • Aha, I’ve been meaning to check the Sinnovator cup out! Hankey’s does a Vac suction cup too, and I have one by Boneyard as well. Could be a separate section for this post. Have you compared the Sinnovator one to either of those?

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  8. Howdy, I’ve been a long-time lurker and can’t remember if I’ve ever commented before but wanted to thank you for recommending the Lust Arts suction cup. It works really well with the Vixskin Johnny just like you said, and I’m super happy! Your reviews are always excellent.

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