Best Suction Cup Dildos: Hands-Free & Body-Safe Listing

The best suction cup dildos are made of body-safe platinum silicone. Some are very realistic dildos, while other are abstract or dragon-shaped! Over the past 5 years, I’ve tested lots of different suction cup toys and lots of different suction cup positions too, and here’s what I’ve discovered:

1. Many silicone dildos have built-in suction cups. From realistic penis-shapes to abstract and “fantasy” options, I always recommend silicone because it’s the only body-safe material for suction cup dildos: PVC, TPR/TPE, UR3, latex, and “rubber” toys are porous and potentially toxic!
2. Dildos with bullet holes (for a small, bullet-style vibe) typically will also fit the Tantus suction cup attachment. Vac-U-Lock-holed toys + Doc Johnson’s suction cup work the same way.
3. Buy double-sided suction cups (like these customizable ones!) to stick on the flat base of most suction-cup-less dildos.
4. Dildo mounts (like Liberator sex pillows) allow you to put a dildo in a hole in the pillow and then ride away.
5. Buy a thigh harness, put any dildo in it, and wrap it around your favorite (flat) pillow to ride.

P.S. If you’re looking for a dildo stick, a dildo with handle, your answer is: The Grip Lock Handle + Suction Cup attachment set, which fits into Vac-style holed dildos (discussed in this section below!).

Built-In-Suction-Cup Dildos

There are a lot of silicone suction cupped options, but these are the ones I feel really confident recommending as quality, safe toys. I’ve broken them down into realistic, semi-realistic, and fantasy categories below.

Realistic

Realistic-looking silicone dildos are a dime a dozen, but the ones I’m listing in this section deliver a gentler, more realistic feel too:

• Luminous dual-density are my top budget-friendly realistic recommendation: and they’re available in 3 sizes, from Mini to Stud (Large). The Stud is a particular favorite (with its big squishy head!) personally, while the Luminous average size is simply a solid realistic dildo.
• Blush Neo Elite is nice if you want a great tapered toy (like for easier anal)—in that case, pick up a Neo Elite 7.5 Inch. I’ve also heard lots of praise for the 7.5 with Balls for prostate play. The Neo Elites’ soft outside and firm core are a nice balance—not too squishy, not too hard. Neo Elite are smooth and offer lots of skin-like details, but in super-bright colors.
• The BMS Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo shocked me when I first took it out of the box: for 60% the price of VixSkin—the gold standard for dual-density realism—the Naked Addiction Dual is the most realistic skin-feel silicone (that isn’t mega-expensive!), and isn’t so sticky. And the suction cup is good too! I just wish it came in more shapes, sizes, and colors!

• Triple-density with a great suction cup! & My favorite shower dildo. I’m over the moon about the Pleasure Tailor Triarx’s balance of 3 silicone densities all together, in this custom G-spot (or prostate) dildo I designed.
• Want it bigger? SquarePegToys was the very first toymaker to use SuperSoft (squishy & fleshy!) 100% platinum silicone, handmade in the USA, and is known for stretching-friendly sizing. A “FlushCup” suction cup base is an option on all toys here. My absolute favorite is Nathan 1X, truly my favorite realistic to really pound. I had to update 4 dildo guides to include this toy after I got it and realized how much I love it! Mmm, SuperSoft Bronze.

• BMS also makes a bendable dual-density dildo: Addiction David’s outer layer is soft like Naked Addiction but it’s a little slicker, so it’s not quite as skinlike. But David’s hard core bends at whatever angle you want (see a video here), making it truly superior for sticking on a wall or other flat surface and for customized G-/P-spot stimulation.
• NS Novelties now sells two Colours Dual Density Silicone dongs¹ that have a super-squishy outer layer over a firmer core. Colours Dual Density is the best choice for an affordable, larger toy with the 8″ size here. Have your lube handy, though, they eat it! These are the only dual-density silicone dildos with good suction cups besides Blush Real Nude, Blush Neo Elite, and BMS Naked Addiction.
• NS Novelties’ ColourSoft line, which includes a 5″ size and an 8″ size (my review here; pictured below) used to be hands-down my favorite realistic dildos (besides the Tantus Uncut #1, which is ball-less and easier to really thrust). But then I got the Colours Duals and Naked Addiction toys, above, and now I’m having an decision-making crisis because I like all these so much. I still prefer the more-flexible ColourSoft 8″ for wall-fucking.
• The VixSkin Ranger big-headed, squishy dildo is the best Vixen VixSkin suction cup base! This line of dual-density dildos are renowned for their soft realistic feel.
• I was surprised to find that the silicone in Brandon, one of BMS Factory’s larger Addiction line, is softer and fairly realistic! See details in my review here. Plus Brandon and its blue twin Luke are marbled and glow in the dark too.
• Vixen Creations’ earlier suction cup dildo models are beautiful toys with OK suction bases: including some VixSkin (dual-density) dildos: Maverick, Mustang, Randy, Tex, and the new model Slim; and the single-density Realistic Bents, Woody, Leo, and Mistress.² The key is to really push down before use, preferably on a very flat surface.
• Lovehoney’s new Lifelike Lover Luxe Silicone dildo in marbled purple & pink is the softest Lovehoney-own-brand toy: much more flexible than other Lifelike Lover Luxe models. It has a superb suction cup, a slick finish, and a G-spot-friendly head that’s very VixSkin-Mustang-esque.
• New York Toy Collective’s Ellis is an uncut dual-density dildo with lots of skin texture. I talk about Ellis’ suction cup strength in my review here. Spoiler: it’s not awful, but you have to press hard!

Until very recently, pretty much all realistic-looking toys were made of a firmer (≈20A-shore) silicone. This is still the case for the vast majority of realistic-looking dildos: they don’t feel especially realistic, but many people are happy with the firmer stimulation they produce:

• Blush Novelties’ Ruse series. I really like the feel of the silicone in my Ruse Magic Stick; it’s not quite as firm as NS Novelties’, and it has a silkiness about it.
• I really enjoy the Ruse Jammy—it’s big-dick goodness that’s made up of three layers just like Silicone Willy’s. Because of Jammy’s slightly softer feel, I can totally overlook the fact that the suction cup is 7/10 for staying power.
• NS Novelties’ Colours Pleasures series (but be careful to avoid NS Novelties’ Colours 2X and Colours Softies lines, which aren’t body-safe). These are the kind of firmer, realistic, suction cup dil stocked in sex shops everywhere. If you’re sensitive to texture, keep looking because the ridge and veins are a lot.
• Lovehoney’s Likelife Silicone dildos (CA site here; UK site here), which include a smaller and a larger size option (again, there are also non-silicone “Lifelike Lover” models, so be sure to check the materials before buying). Almost identical to a couple of the Colours Pleasures dildos.
• Cloud 9 Pro Sensual silicone dildos: Very inexpensive; fairly firm and slick silicone in a straight shape. See my full review here.
• Fuze Silicone has 4 suction cup dildos: 2 realistic and 2 nonphallic. I found that Freddie’s firmer silicone made for intense G-spot stim, and the silicone finish is a happy medium: just a little texture, but nice and slick with lube.
• Max here appears like a million other realistic suction dils except for one thing: it’s nice and small, 1″ max. diameter by 4″ insertable. I wish I’d had of these when I was just getting into anal play!
• I think the SI Novelties Major Dick camouflage dildo is god-awful and badly made, but…if you want to spend $31 on a gag gift, it sticks OK.

Semi-Realistic/Abstract

Here are some details about quality, semi-realistic toys with suction cup bases:

• The Dildolls silicone dildos by Love-to-Love (a co-company of Strap-On-Me) are softer silicone in very pretty colors, seen above! The top one, Fantasia, has a pastel sherbert drips look, glows in the dark, and is ≈10A shore silicone. The bottom one, Utopia, is slightly softer in the versions I got: it has a jelly-kinda look, but is safe silicone, in pink-to-blue bi-flag-reminiscent colors. And the “Glitzy” Dildolls I would avoid, because many mass-producers are using larger glitter particles than they should be.
• Addiction Rave dildos are a smooth, pretty-soft silicone outside, with a posable core: 2 marbled colors that glow in the dark. This is my favorite abstract for suction cup play; its 7 inches usable length are long enough for me to use standing up, dildo stuck to the wall.
• Blush Novelties makes the Avant dildos: brightly striped colorations. The Avant D15 is highly recommended as a beginner dildo, for anal play or first-time vaginal sex, because it’s 1 inch wide at the head, a slim 1.25 inches max. diameter, and semi-soft. The Avant D3 (my review) and D4 have a different base shape that makes the D3 probably the strongest suction cup in my collection.

• Blush also has the Avant Ergo dual-density dildos, the most affordable abstract dual-density option I’d trust. The suction cups are a little ho-hum, though. I’d rate Ergo Mini a 4/10 for staying power, while Ergo is a 5.5 / 10.
• Godemiche’s Ambit can include a suction cup base, like in the Dr. Strange and Dr. Manhattan colorations here. The Ambit has a protruding ridge and big curve for targeted G-spot/prostate stimulation, and the suction cup is quite effective.
• They vibrate!!! Blush Impressions dildos are firm, smooth silicone toys with the most powerful motors I’ve felt in a vibrating dildo, ever. They come in 5 shapes: review here.
• NS Novelties has a new Colours Wave suction cup dildo (review here) that’s lots smoother and more abstract than the Colours Pleasures and ColourSoft realistic toys.
• The Suga Daddy dildos by Rock Candy are toys with a realistic head but swirls all around the shaft—like a unicorn horn with a glans. They’re available in four different sizes; I like that they’re softer silicone.
• Lovehoney’s 7″ Curved Silicone Dildo and Curved 5.5″ (CA; UK; EU) are smooth toys with built-in suction cups that are strong enough but not great. Check out my 7″ Curved review for details.
• Fuze Silicone makes the Star, a narrow, shimmery-blue toy that’s described as having a very powerful suction cup. I believe it, based on my experience with its realistic friend, Freddie.
• Funkit Toys’ Swell and Swing 2.0 are beautifully colored toys in a medium-firm (18A) silicone. These suction cup bases have a unique hinged design, where slits make it easy to bend the suction cup for times when you just want to hold and thrust.
• I would definitely not recommend Fun Factory’s flat-base dildos (like the Boss, Amor, Bouncer, and Tiger) if you have your heart set on a built-in suction cup. All toys supposedly have “a flat base…[that] adheres to smooth surfaces or walls,” but I’ve found that my Boss’s base won’t stay attached to the wall, and has weak suction when attached to a flat horizontal surface.
• I also think that Blush’s Temptasia dildos—specifically, Reina and Jezebel, and Elvira to some degree; I can’t say anything about Bellatrix or the Twist Kit—tend to fall flat as far as the suction cup strength goes.

A final option is the Maia Kendall and Maia Riley, which have passable but not great suction and are quite firm (but silky).

I would recommend against the CalExotics Silicone Emperor Vibrating line because the PVC suction cups screw off the silicone dongs, leaving the battery compartments exposed. This means that you can neither boil the toys nor soak them in a 10%-bleach solution. You could try dousing them in rubbing alcohol, but…there are so many good options out there that don’t include PVC.

Fantasy

Pleasure Forge does amazing marbles, and some toys have suction cup bases, like Wizard and Rogue. My Wizard in 10A is truly my favorite sex toy marble ever.

Some (not all) of Bad Dragon’s and Exotic Erotics’ toys can include a suction cup as an optional add-on.

Twin Tail Creations is a good option too: a suction cup can be added to all their current toys, though it works best on the ones without balls.

Lust Arts has a very nifty-looking Unicorn Horn with an optional suction base and customizable firmness.

Or, if you’re looking for a smaller, cheaper version of BD’s Flint dragon dildo, BMS Factory makes Tom and Ben (review here).

For me, the biggest benefit of fantasy toys is that they typically come in softer densities: they’re much more yielding to the touch, and flexible inside your body. Plus there are so many textures available! Read more about why I love fantasy sex toys here.

Self-Thrusting Dildos with Suction Cups

Do I love self-propelled thrusting toys? Absolutely, enough to write an entire guide to them. They move themselves, for all those times when you want someone to do the work of penetration for you. These ones have suction cups:

• Maia Max & Monroe: Vibrating & thrusting dildo with an adjustable suction cup—you can set the angle. This streamlined toy works well for me vaginally, and I prefer it for anal. It has a remote too!
• Velvet Thruster Mini, Teddy: A more realistically shaped toy with even better thrusting power (but no vibes). By itself Teddy is a bit short for me to use with the suction cup—but whoa, add a dildo mount (described here) and it’s my favorite setup for hands-free, effortless screwing. 
• Pipedream Fantasy for Her Love Thrust-Her: It vibrates and thrusts. It’s OK, but I’m not singing its praises too loudly.

Bullet-Hole Dildos + Suction Cup Attachments

Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup

The Vac-U-Lock hole, created by Doc Johnson, is now widely used to stabilize toys. (It fits Vac harnesses, knuckle attachments, fucking machine attachments, and more.) This hole is a good bit wider than the standard bullet hole, especially at the top, so the Tantus suction cup (pictured below and discussed next) and tapered bullets (see the We-Vibe Tango) will wiggle around in these holes—and may even fall out. 

Vac-U-Hole dildos are in this guide because there are two Vac-U-Lock suction attachments: the frosted Vac-U-Lock suction cup and the large Vac-U-Lock suction cup (which supposedly holds more weight). I haven’t tried the latter, but I found the former to be OK on flat horizontal surfaces and pretty bad on vertical surfaces. Update: The Boneyard Grip Lock kit has a better suction cup than Doc J. or Tantus! It’ll stick the dildo (any dildo below) well to smooth surfaces.

• Mr. Hankey’s Toys are comfortably squishy in 75% Soft silicone, and offers an optional Vac-U-Lock hole in all non-Xtra-Small toys (ones that are almost 2″ wide or more). Because of how large the biggest Hankey’s dildos are, neither the Tantus suction cup nor the Vac-U-Lock one will be strong enough to support their weight on even the smoothest wall. (In those cases, the hole is for stability in a harness/on a fuck machine.) Stick to the “BIG but not GINORMOUS” options for best suction cup results. I highly recommend sitting on Topher Michels, for example. This isn’t an exact replica of the Vac plug shape, but fits Vac plugs very well, and is the best fit for bullet vibrators like We-Vibe Tango if you want versatility.
• SquarePegToys, the original maker of SuperSoft platinum silicone!, offers SquarePegHoles on a number of dildos (again, the toy needs to be about 2 inches thick before a hole is possible). Leo here is an excellent option for deep thrusting with a flexible, comfortable bend: in 2 sizes; and Nathan 1X is my boy, my absolute favorite with the width of its ridge. SquarePegHoles are a little tighter than a vac attachment and lined with ribs: they fit a Vac plug exceptionally well, and will fit most shorter bullet vibes great; We-Vibe Tango original and Sensuelle Point stick out a bit.
• Uberrime does the Large Splendid with Vac hole, in a stunning 2-color marble. This is pretty soft silicone; the bulbous head really comes through still. This is an exact original Vac insert, so bullet vibes don’t fit.
• Boneyard makes this thick black cock (100% body-safe silicone!) in a kit with attachable handle OR suction cup base. Semi-soft silicone (5A Shore), tons of skin texture & a nice ridge.
• John Thomas Toys (UK-based) by default includes a Vac hole and a (PVC) suction cup insert in their silicone dildos. I was pleased to discover that their Soft density is not the semi-firm 15A Shore advertised, but a 2-3A Shore durometer: massive difference, and it makes me suspicious that the manufacturer doesn’t correct their listings to include that fact.
• Sinnovator (UK-based) also offers Vac hole on all dildos, from fantasy shapes to realistics. These are firmer silicone, it seems: their Etsy shop reports “Soft” as 5A, while the website offers Medium-Soft and Medium firmnesses.
• Blush’s The Realm dildos have Vac-U-Lock (“Lock On”) holes. These are a 18A-shore silicone (flexible-firm), and I would not recommend Draken the dragon unless you are very comfortable with lots of texture. Use lube.
• So-so fit: the Pleasure Works dildos “Siren,” “Riley,” and “Cadet” vibrating by Good Vibrations have large bullet holes that are similar to the Vac-U-Lock holes: in two tiers and wider at the deepest part of the hole. The Pleasure Works holes are shorter, though, so the Vac-U-Lock suction cup sticks out an extra two-thirds an inch or so. It’s wiggly, not very secure; wouldn’t recommend on a sex machine with Vac attachment.
• Doc Johnson has discontinued their silicone dildos with a large true “Vac-U-Lock” hole, POP! Rebel & Icon.

Tantus Suction Cup Attachment

Tantus’ suction cup accessory is a nice add-on if you want your dildo to vibrate sometimes, and be used hands-free other times. One side is a peg that fits into a dildo’s bullet hole, and the other is a suction cup!

It sticks well on very smooth, flat surfaces but can still detach itself from more textured surfaces (like a bumpy, painted wall). Because the suction cup isn’t actually part of the dildo’s base, toys wiggle around move on it. That’s why I prefer it the Tantus suction cup on horizontal surfaces (like my fave nightstand) so I have best control over the angle!

Insert the Tantus suction cup in any dildo with a standard bullet hole in place of a bullet vibe. Here are my top bullet-holed picks:

• Obviously, the Tantus suction cup attachment was created to fit into Tantus’ own vibrating toys. If you’d like the toy to have a softer exterior (for more comfort with faster thrusts), check out Tantus’ dual-density vibrating toys: Duchess, Sam, and Alan (review here).
• Vixen Creations offers four dildos with bullet holes: Mistress, Champlette, Leo, and Woody (pictured above). The silicone isn’t super-soft, but it is flexible.
• Fleshlight now offers the Fleshlight Guys line of lifecast porn star cocks with bullet or suction cup holes. Fleshlight also makes a silicone suction cup to go with these that bears a remarkable resemblance to the Tantus suction cup.

Double-Sided Suction Cups

If you have the perfect (but sadly suction-cup-less dildo) already, then check out some double-sided suction cups. For these, silicone is an ideal option because (unlike PVC) it can be sanitized after you drip fluids and lube onto the detachable suction cup, and your quality toys are sure to stay safe.

Lust Arts recently released a silicone double-sided suction cup. I love that you can customize its size, to better fit your fave dildo base (hint: large is usually the way), and you can also order custom colors. I’m currently testing how strong several of these are, and so far the large + large combo has held on really well—like on VixSkin Johnny!

New York Toy Collective also has a Double Sided Suction Cup that’s very affordable, at $10. I think it’s a really great solution for smooth surfaces. Read my full review to see exactly what toys and surfaces it does and doesn’t work with; it tends to fall off painted walls, for example.

Dildo Mounts

Liberator, the leading brand in sex positioning pillows, now offers three toy mounts for hands-free riding that’ll accommodate a dildo:

• The torso-length Wing (Peepshow Toys | Amazon) (24″ long x 15″ wide x 9″ high): Awesome for cowgirl & doggy.³ Win has two holes: one will fit a wand vibe’s body.
• The taller BonBon (Peepshow Toys | Amazon) (15″ long x 8.5″ wide x 12″ high): Good for grinding on.
• The Pulse, which lets you rock back and forth and has a bullet vibe slot too. I’m intrigued!

Overall, I’ve had some really great orgasms riding dildos in the Liberator Wing works well for simulating cowgirl style, and it saves my wrists. My one minor issue with it: the dildo hole isn’t very wide because it’s meant to hold smaller vibes too. Getting average-girth dildos in requires some wiggling, not to mention the larger ones. But after the toy is in place, the Wing is a good deal.

If your toy already has a suction cup, consider the T.O.M. dildo mount (read my full review here). It’s made of plastic, so not as comfortable to sit on, but it offers multiple angles and is better geared toward doggy style. Shorter users may find the top mount a bit tall (especially with longer dildos), while taller women and most men may find the angled sides too short.

I’m in the “taller” camp, so my best dildo mount experience there was pairing the T.O.M. v.2 with the Velvet Thruster Mini Teddy self-thrusting dildo! The Mini’s suction cup will usually detach, but it stays in place inside T.O.M.’s circle-inlaid top.

Also, for anal play and taller legs!: The Easy Squat system anchors a Vac-U-Lock dildo (a thicker toy with an insert hole in its base) onto an 11-inch dildo mount. It’s just the right height for me to kneel over and take a 6 inch dildo (Steve actual size for the win). The plastic, with drip reservoirs, is also easy to wipe down. Get this for big toys or deep anal, it’s more secure than T.O.M. or the Liberator mounts. The downside is that you really need to go straight up and down with the riding; it’s not a mount for doggy style.

Thigh Harness

It’s certainly possible to wrap a thigh harness — like the affordable Sportsheets one pictured above —around a very flat (or abnormally small) pillow. But I found it awkward to position all my pillows comfortably, and they didn’t have the resistance that a Liberator pillow’s firm foam has. I also tried wrapping the harness around a lumbar support pillow, but that ended up being too short and also a bit awkward to position. I tried to solve this problem by adding towels underneath the pillow, which was slightly better but still a little awkward. If you’re less of a perfectionist than I am, this solution might work fine for you.

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Notes

1. Don’t confuse these with Colours 2X dual density TPE, which is porous and shouldn’t be used long-term.
2. Woody, Leo, and Mistress also have vibrating versions, which you can stick a Tantus suction cup into. See later in this post for more about that option.
3. This is one of the few toy-related purchases that I would recommend from Amazon, since many dildos and vibes on Amazon claim to be body-safe but are actually made of porous materials. (I want to flame-test and cut into one of these Anfei “dual layer liquid silicone” dildos so bad. The way the outer layer pulls away from the core in one of the product pics makes me suspicious!)