Best G-Spot Dildo Guide – I Tested 105 Sex Toys

My first G-spot orgasm was like, WTF was that 😮 what just happened to me – that was SO GOOD. I was 28 years old, and my climax during sex was, basically, accidental. I instantly became a “G-spot” stimulation devotee🙏. I didn’t even own a G-spot dildo, yet: I’d been lucky my 1st partner’s cock had a natural “G-spot curve.”

That feeling was so 💥explosive🎆 and different, I longed to keep imitating it – anytime I wanted, without risk of pregnancy, as safely as possible. And so I’ve grown a tremendous collection of body-safe G-spot dildos, G-spot vibrators, and expansive vaginal sex toys ever since then – as I simultaneously researched & tested (very enthusiastically😉) to discover the why, what, and how of G-spot massage.

A decade later, here’s everything I’ve uncovered: how-to G-spot stimulation advice plus a rating of best G-spot dildos (with my all-time new favorite G-spot realistic!) and 1 exquisite best Gspot vibrator.

Recap, Best G-Spot Dildos – Including Gspot Vibrators

First, this is huge: Fantastic G-spot stimulation always includes clit stimulation, either direct or indirect: So get ur clit play on before or while employing vaginal sex toys! These are my top finds after surveying 105 specific G-spot sex toys over the years.

1. Njoy Pure Wand: The G-god. This is peak Gspot pressure, and the 1 tool to own if you’re unable to find your G-spot with fingers or any other firm, curved sex toy. The Pure Wand’s the quintessential G-spot dildo, made of weighty 316 stainless steel that will not leach or corrode (like cheaper metals do).
2. Solina Spotta: Ultra-realistic + sculpted G-spot rubbing head. Soft platinum-cured silicone with a ballsack for clit stimulation, too; + dual-density core so it’s not floppy. My favorite pure G-spot dildo, since I love the 🍆. Suction cup base.
3. Pillow Talk Sassy – my best G-spot vibrator. (Works as a clit vibrator too!) Uber-rumbly adjustable vibration. Thrust it inside for maximum G-spot seeking action.
4. Uberrime Splendid: Bulging head + dramatic curved; artisan hand-made. Flat base. Awesomely impactful for P-spot & pegging as well. Semi-realistic, so it’s ideal for folks who don’t want to look at skin textures, veins, balls, etc.
5. SquarePeg Steve: Super-Soft, thick G-spot dildo. If u want softer thump-pounding inside. Fine, protruding ridge + a shaft that ⬅️widens➡️ as you take it all. Also semi-realistic.

What is a G-spot dildo, really, versus a normal dildo?

A dedicated G-spot dildo must have either a

• large ridge or bulb (circle-like feature), and/or
• prominent curve…

…for superior spot stim. That’s because the “G-spot” requires inward pressure and/or downward strokes into it, for most people with vaginas to feel G-spot sensation. It’s also why I’m not listing my all-time favorite (thicc) lifelike dildo high-up in this best G-spot toys list, since it (Mega 2XL) is “G-spotty” when I thrust it fast – yet not intensely G-spot targeting🎯.

More on what & where the G-spot is exactly, and how to access it, here. Truly, the G-spot is a pleasure zone – not a small “spot.” It’s where you feel the joining of vaginal nerves, the internal clitoris, and more.

#1. Njoy Pure Wand for Power

It’s the classic you’ll find in every G-spot dildo list, because it is a brilliant creation – in shiny ‘n’ smooth stainless steel.

If you don’t know where your G-spot is, or you have a tough time applying pressure to it successfully, then the Njoy Pure dildo is *the tool* to get.

The contours of its firm weight, pressing in, finding the spot as you rock the Pure Wand’s dramatically angled weight. Its intensity, unmatched by any other G-spot toy, ever.

The authentic Njoy Pure Wand is 316 medical grade stainless steel, which is trustworthy because it stands the test of time – it’s used in surgical settings since this stainless blend resists acidity and corrosion better. It contains no aluminum that can seep out and accumulate in your system. Cheap copycats of the Pure g-spot Wand are simply less safe.

Alternative: Less impactful overall, but you want a good cheaper tool, check out the Firefly Glass G-spot Wand. It’s lighter-weight, and its bulb size is in-between the Pure Wand g-spot dildo’s two ends (1″ and 1.5″).

Njoy’s Gspot wand is the quintessential G-spot dildo, yet not *my* personal favorite: I prefer softer G-spot pressure, moving fast. That’s a personal taste thing: varying by person, like strongly preferring vanilla over chocolate ice cream, or vice versa. Instead:

#2. Solina Spotta for Realistic Feel Gspotting

Solina Spotta dildo is my #1 for G-spot stimulation b/c its shaft feels quite real, then it has this sculpted ridge effect that’s magic for repeated G-spot massage. My how-to method with Spotta: 1.) use it so the balls r hitting my clit first, then 2.) flip it 180° so the head is rubbing up-‘n’-down my spot.

You see: I’m a realistic dildos to the max kinda gal. Occasionally I’ll find a fantasy dildo that’s awesome for a change, but penis-resembling toys call to me. Only 20 years ago, realistic dildos were always made of crappy materials💩 that smelled, picked up bacteria and fungi, and cracked over time. But now, we got platinum silicone that actually repels water & germs.

Silicone can be softer, yet safe. I like the Solina Spotta so much since it’s perfect for matching cock-head softness at erection. It’s my G-spot’s goldilocks level: neither slightly flaccid-gushy like VixSkin Mustang, nor a bit too hard & plasticky like Neo Elite 7.5″ with Balls Dildo is for me.

#3. Pillow Talk Sassy – Vibrator / dildo.

The Pillow Talk Sassy’s been my trusty toy sidekick for 5 years now. Unfailingly orgasmic – I know I’m always gonna cum on this G-spot vibrator. And: it’s damn good for clitoral rubbing stimulation outside too. The vibration is SO DEEP and rrrrumbly.

Employ a G-spot vibrator like a dildo for better effect: I always get more outta stroking down with a Gspot vibe toy, thrusting it into myself. Turning it into a vibrating dildo for Gspot pleasure 💗🌪️💗. Sassy holds my #1 vibrator feature, too: Adjustable-speed custom vibration.

The Pillow Talk Sassy is sweetly sized for me, just enough bulge. But folks who want a firmer Gspot vibrator as their best time should check out:

Alternative best G-spot vibrator: the classic Lelo Mona 2. Mona 2’s unyielding insertable length includes a firm line all the way down, made so you can press into the sensitive front vag. wall harder.

#4. Uberrime Splendid for Bigger

The Splendid medium is a big-headed bulk for catching the G-spot.

Smoother and less skin-like, Splendid’s ridge sticks out to apply forward G-spot pressure, and works best if you use short, repeated strokes.

Dual-layer silicone (like Solina), the Splendid’s curve is well-reinforced by a thick firm core inside. I’ve owned a Splendid in custom marbled colors – awesome, 🎨🖼️ dildo art – and I’m also into 🥳 the metallic shine of my new blue Splendid.

It’s bulbous and may be too big for anyone who’s a beginner to dildos, or anyone who cannot do broad dildos.

#5. Super-Soft Touch: SquarePeg Steve.

This “spot dildo” is for the squishy gentleness fan and the wide-vagina stretching fan. Made for anal P-spot pleasure, Steve will also serve well if you do not like hard things inside your vagina. It’s 100% super-soft silicone, which can be squeezed easily. *squish*

Steve’s lippy-line of a ridge is noticeable, while its shaft expands down below: In the bigger sizes, especially the 2X size, Steve is chonky thick – actually a huge dildo. Look, this is just the smallest size Steve!⬇️⬇️

#6. Solina Mega Extra-Large Dildo.

This is my top realistic dildo for lifelike feel, since I prefer penises in the top 5% for girth.¯\_(ツ)_/¯ The Mega XL is bigger than 98% of erections, while Mega X-X-L is like “one in a million” BIG (it’s long too!).

The Mega dildos’ G-spot impact is moderate: not imposing. It’s the fast repeated strokes that make me cum hardest, the speed balancing out the gentle *floop!* of its 2-bump ridge + sulcus. The XXL size is srsly my best dildo ever for just getting f*cked like a great big penis would – and the important part, it’s always available and no germs!!!

Top 7 G-spot Stimulation Tips

G-spot stimulation is not inherently better than clitoral stimulation, but it is absolutely a must-try if you’re comfortable with vaginal sex.

As I was growing up, no one told me nuthin’ about either clitoral *or* G-spot pleasure. Since teenage-me was confused why this “Mike Litt” joke was funny🤔, there was zero chance my early sex encounters would find me aware of how to press into the G-spot and use my body for my pleasure.

Most importantly, no one told me about kegel exercises for strengthening my PC muscles until I read about them postpartum, and – inadvertently – started having the best damn orgasms of my life.

It is never too late to learn: what & where the G-spot is – and how to stimulate it, till G-spot or blended orgasm is possible. My top 7 tips:

1. Know where your G-spot is. It’s on the front vaginal wall (bellybutton side of your body), several inches in (often 2–3 inches). Any individual person’s best location can range from only 1–1.5 inches in, up to 4 inches inside the vaginal canal.
2. Be aroused clitorally first. Clit arousal makes blood flow into all the erectile tissue in front of and beside the vagina. Vaginal-only orgasms are possible for 20–25% of cis women, but clit stimulation first makes G-spot orgasm more attainable, for more people.
3. You can achieve this via clitoral pressure from a fingertip, clitoral vibration from a toy, or clitoral rubbing with a couple fingers or a toy.
4. Apply pressure at the G-spot, while stroking downward. Short strokes, repeated, produce best results.
5. As you get more aroused, clench your muscles around whatever your vagina is sheathing: be it a G-spot dildo, a partner’s curved fingers, or a vibrator. Repeat several times. Your thighs and butt will clench too as you get real turned on, and you may find yourself flexing your toes.
6. Add direct clitoral stimulation if you’re not reaching climax: This will achieve a blended orgasm, and it is fantastic too.
7. Feel your body clench, and allow your mind to let go. Feel free to moan, say sexy words, or scream, as you like.

If you’re using a sex toy for G-spot stimulation, don’t forget the body-safe lubricant, too.

Where is the G-spot? *What* is the G-spot?

The “G-spot” is inside the vagina, on the front side. That’s the side facing both the belly and the clitoris.

Most folks report their most-sensitive spot is between 2 and 4 inches inside. (But it’s totally OK if you enjoy either shallower or deeper than that.)

To access the G-spot, you must curve your fingers inward (called the “Come hither” motion), or have a curved sex toy.

Repeated, downward strokes are critical.

What the G-spot is: It’s not a distinct anatomical organ, but the convergence of several. You have more nerve endings in the front lower vagina wall, first; then, more sensitivity in the back of the urethra (which is right in front of the vagina, and engorges with blood when someone’s aroused!); Skene’s glands may play a part; and last, the engorged bulbs of the internal clitoris, innervated by the dorsal nerve of the clitoris.¹ There’s erectile tissue in women’s bodies / clit-having bodies, too! We got a lot goin’ on here.

Kegel Clenching and G-spot Orgasms

🛎️*ding ding ding* This is the one key for stronger orgasms I will give every clit & vagina owner, if they don’t experience involuntary & painful pelvic tightness (vulvodynia or vaginismus, etc.).

“Kegel exercises” are what they’re called, technically, but I might rename ’em clench-ercise. How-to:

• You’re clenching (=contracting & holding tight) your pelvic floor muscles: the PC muscles (pubococcygeus). These are the muscles you squeeze to stop peeing. (But do not do kegels while peeing.)
• Do a few reps or sets of 10 to 20 seconds, holding your muscles tight during that time. And it’s OK to start with shorter second-intervals if you can’t do 10 seconds yet.
• Take a minute or so break between clenches.
• Do 2 to 3 reps,
• a few times a week, like every other day. (On-day, Off-day routine.)
• Strive to reach up to ≈20 second holds, doing sets of 3.
• Do this for up to 6 weeks. Even 2 weeks may be enough to feel positive results. You can start again anytime in the future you need, like if you find yourself peeing a little when you sneeze: Kegels should improve that, too, as you clench right before you sneeze.

Kegels are recommended to postparpartum moms for incontinence, yet kegels are rarely praised for how they can enhance pleasure. I reject this: We are not valid because we’re walking wombs, we are humans who want and deserve more enjoyment in life.

In doing a kegel “clench-ercise”, you’re actively strengthening the major muscles around your clit, urethra, and vagina, and anus too. This added strength lets you clench around both vaginal and clitoral stimulation: So you can have more sensational orgasms afterward. Plus, as you age, you’ll be less likely to pee some as you sneeze hard, run fast, or laugh uproariously.

Squirting and G-spot Orgasm

Squirting can coincide with G-spot orgasm, but doesn’t have to. Squirting and orgasm always happen together for approximately 20% of (cis) women who can squirt.²

This means: you can have G-spot orgasms and never squirt, or you can squirt from G-spot orgasm sometimes, or you can squirt from clitoral orgasms – and other possibilities! Here’s my how-to squirt guide if you want to explore, since 34% of squirters find it intensely pleasurable, while 52% find it kinda-pleasurable.³

G-spot Dildo History

• ≈28,000 years old is the oldest dildo found so far: but it was straight, not a Gspot dildo specific shape. It’s possible that curved dildos existed this early, and were enthusiastically used for G-spot stimulation, but we haven’t found their remains.
• ≈3,000 years ago, we have depictions of dildos on Greek pottery, like this long, curved clearly a G-spot dildo dated to ca. 530–520 B.C.E.
• In the early 1970s (1972-ish), Gosnell Duncan became the first maker of silicone dildos – which don’t leach plasticizer chemicals like soft PVC dildos do!!! G.Duncan initially sought to produce dildos for himself and other disabled persons; but soon turned to feminist sex shops to spread these better-quality toys. Several insisted that their clientele couldn’t possibly want phallic dildos, so Duncan’s first commercially sold dildo “resembled a large crooked finger.” (Hopefully this means curved forward for G-spot dildo play!)⁴
• In 1981, the Grafenberg spot – “G-spot” for short – was so-named by sexologists Beverly Whipple and John Perry, in honor of Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg, who in 1950 wrote, “An erotic zone always could be demonstrated on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra.” Dr. G argued against calling women “frigid” because they hadn’t had a vaginal orgasm, and implied that the actual problem might be having an inept male lover.
• In 1983, Vibratex (now distributor of Magic Wand vibrators) launched the first Rabbit vibrator line blending G-spot & clitoral vibration. The Rabbit Pearl was most popular – likely because it didn’t include a full kangaroo or a beaver on it. These old-school toys were, sadly, thermoplastic elastomer, which will degrade & hold bacteria.
• The Njoy Pure Wand was first produced in 2004–2005. It’s been the ultimate squirting dildo ever since.
• In 2005–2006, dual-density dildos became a thing, as Vixen Creations launched the iconic VixSkin Mustang G-spot dildo. This combo of platinum silicones melds a gushy-soft outside, over a harder core. (Silicone can be made in many different hardness levels!)

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NOTES

1. See one study on the innervation and small blood vessels in the vagina in Ting Li et al., “Anatomic Distribution of Nerves and Microvascular Density in the Human Anterior Vaginal Wall: Prospective Study,” in PLoS ONE 9, no. 11 (2014): e110239, https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0110239, full text online at https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4224374/.
2. ≈19.65% as assessed in a 2018 survey with 3,017 American women respondents: 239 “always squirters” / out of 1,216 folks who replied that they have squirted at least once. That’s ≈8% of always-squirters, total out of all survey respondents. See table 2 in Devon J. Hensel, Christiana D. von Hippel, Charles C. Lapage, & Robert H. Perkins, “Vaginal Squirting: Experiences, Discoveries, and Strategies in a U.S. Probability Sample of Women Ages 18-93,” in Journal of Sex Research 61, no. 4 (2023), pages 529–539, online at https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2023.2243939 or https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2023.2243939.
3. Also from table 2 in Hensel et al., “Vaginal Squirting,” full info in previous footnote.
4. Fun fact: Good Vibrations actually hid the dildos under the counter until Susie Bright became a staff-member in the early ’80s.