Best Sex Toys for Squirting + How to Squirt Tips

Make it rain? 💦 Squirting orgasms aren’t just a fake porn thing or (sex) party trick. It took me some practice to learn how to squirt, and in the ≈ 8 years since, I’ve tried and tested the most reliable sex toys for squirting. These orgasms are a different kind — no better, or worse, than a normal clitoral or G-spot orgasm; simply another fun avenue to explore if you’re interested. Looking to try out “female ejaculation”? Tips and tricks for gushing sex follow, along with an exploration of what squirting really is.

Important note: Different people squirt from different stimulation styles. The most reliable squirting toys fall into three categories: G-spot pressure toys, clitoral buildup toys, and dual-stimulation toys. You may naturally respond more to one type of stimulation than another — the only way to know is through exploration.

How I Review & How I’m Funded

Body-safe only; test-driven performance. I only recommend toys I’d feel good suggesting to a close friend, and I don’t accept paid reviews, ads, or editorial control. Affiliate links help fund independent testing of 1,300+ vibrators, 600+ dildos, 150+ butt plugs, and plenty of other gear. Every product is tested at least five times, with emphasis on ergonomics, ease of use, and—most importantly—sensation compared with similar toys, so you can decide if it’ll work for you.

What Type of Sex Toy Works Best for Squirting?

My most reliable squirting toys, grouped by how they work:

• Pure Wand by Njoy: Focused, firm G-spot pressure — ideal for people who squirt from strong internal stimulation.
• Peak dildo by Hankey’s Toys: Milking build-up that engages your whole pelvic floor – best for people who are more sensitive vaginally & dislike hard metal.
• Satisfyer Pro 2: Intense clitoral buildup that can trigger release during orgasm.
• Magic Wand Rechargeable or Waterproof: Deep, powerful external vibration for strong clitoral orgasms and full-body buildup.

How to Squirt: First-Time Tips

It’s a mental thing, learning to squirt. (For most people with clits and vaginas, at least; others do naturally dribble / squirt / ejaculate around heightened arousal and orgasm.) I am someone who needed to learn to squirt, and it was a process. Mainly because you have to get over the mental block of “holding back.” It deters a lot of people from intense G-spot play too: the feeling that they’re going to pee themselves and it’ll be embarrassing! But pushing through that feeling is key to achieving a great climax.

One first tip for becoming comfortable with “letting go”: Get a waterproof blanket. Cleanup will be much easier, and you’ll feel more comfortable doing it on a bed. (Rather than being relegated to the bathtub!) Free to release.

Second tip: Build up intensity slowly. Then do kegels / clenches with your pelvic floor. Holding for 5 seconds or so, then releasing. If you like the sensation, you can also alternate between the kegel clenches (5-10 seconds per clench) and counting upward between them. So: clench 1-2-3-4-5, release and play with yourself 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10, etc. The clenching has the effect of adding tension that you’ll find yourself wanting to release.

Third tip: Think about how good it will be to let go … and feel it get wet. Nothing shameful about this. If it’s fun, it’s good!

Fourth tip: Try playing with your nipples / having a partner play with them too. As you get more aroused clitorally and vaginally, they should tingle and, again, add more buildup.

Fifth tip: Give yourself permission to come, just a little. (This works best if you can experience multiple orgasms in a row.) Then hold back, and keep clenching.

Sixth tip: Rub it (clit) or stroke it (G-spot toy) harder. Apply pressure where it feels the best. Faster may be better: I know it is for me & clit-rubbing before I squirt.

Seventh tip: Let yourself get so turned on, you know you’re going to make a mess. Maybe take a sip of water. Think about how you don’t know if you can hold off any longer.

Eighth tip: When you feel the orgasm overcoming you, push outward. Don’t hold it back, make the wetness come out.

If you’re going for a vaginally-induced squirt and not succeeding, pull out (the fingers, or sex toy, or penis) right as the orgasm is beginning. It’s possible, but much more difficult, to release fluids when the vagina is being penetrated.

And the most important tip: No pressure. If you start overthinking trying to reach orgasm, that can totally throw off your flow (pun intended). A key tip for sexual wellness overall is: Let yourself feel and focus on the good sensations, rather than forcing any particular outcome.

G-Spot Squirting Sex Toys

G-spot orgasms are a kind of holy grail for many people, but they don’t replace clitoral orgasms — they’re just a different sensation worth exploring. Even if you usually need clitoral stimulation to come (which is very common), G-spot pressure can add a deeper kind of buildup.

The G-spot is typically stimulated by pressing inward about two to three inches inside the vagina, along the front wall toward the belly button. G-spot dildos (tested picks) use a forward curve or pronounced ridge to apply steady pressure to this area, pushing into the sensitive tissue surrounding the urethra.

Strong G-spot stimulation often creates a “need to pee” sensation at first. This is normal — empty your bladder beforehand, relax into the feeling, and see where it leads. For some people, that pressure and release is what eventually turns into squirting.

Pure Wand (Firm G-Spot Pressure)

The best-known G-spot squirting dildo; made of 316 stainless steel.

Why it works for squirting:

The Njoy Pure Wand is the most focused G-spot dildo. The way the round bulb arcs inward is for real pressure, offering up the forward push that many G-spots need to become activated.

It often builds G-spot intensity fast, causing the “need to release” sensation associated with squirting. The very firm material (stainless steel) also makes the pressure consistent: Pure Wands do not bend, at all.

Best for:

• People who respond to hard internal pressure.
• Fast G-spot buildup with less movement.
• Those who struggle feel G-spot stimulation from softer toys.

Technique tip

Many people find the Pure Wand works best with slower, short rocking movements instead of thrusting; I cover detailed positioning and technique in my full Pure Wand guide.

Peak (Silicone Ridge Pressure)

Intense contact in soft silicone.

Why it works for squirting:

The Peak dildo’s pronounced ridge was made for serious spot pressure & consistent contact—even in super-soft silicone, where many dildo heads feel too soft to be effective. Here, the Peak’s design lets the soft silicone maintain great pressure into the front vaginal wall, while never feeling abrasive. (Especially for sensitive bodies, soft silicone is much more pleasant inside the vagina.)

This helps build arousal gradually, “milking” the G-spot comfortably. Instead of intensity from weight, the squirting buildup comes from sustained contact.

Best for:

• Slow stroking and longer buildup sessions.
• People who find metal toys too intense, too hard, or too heavy.
• Choice of firmness, color, and size. (Small is the easiest size to manage).

Technique tip:

Use short strokes of less than an inch, even tapping a finger under the Peak’s base. Increase speed gently as you feel the tension build.

Clitoral Squirting Vibrators

Not everyone squirts from internal (G-spot) stimulation. Many people experience squirting during strong clitoral orgasms instead, especially from rubbing or stroking motions. For some bodies, clitoral massage and release coincides with fluid expulsion.

Clit suction toys and powerful wand vibrators are especially effective here because they are the most intense clit stimulators. When looking to squirt, the goal is usually buildup first — to reach a point where arousal climbs high enough, that letting go feels inevitable.

Satisfyer Pro 2 (Clitoral Buildup)

Why it works for squirting:

The Satisfyer Pro 2 uses air pulsation rather than direct vibration, as the pulses of air pressure surround and focus strongly right on the clitoris. With 11 suction functions, you can build intensity slowly – or you can jump right to the higher speeds, 9–11. For some people, clitoral squirting happens amidst a strong external-only orgasm (no penetration).

Best for:

• Focused clitoral pleasure.
• People who primarily orgasm from clitoral stimulation.
• People who dislike vibration: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2 has none, acting only via air pulsation.

Technique tip:

Use lubricant and move the toy slightly up-and-down over the clitoris instead of holding it in one fixed position: this slight amount of motion helps stroke the clitoris. Then, seal it back down and increase the intensity level.

Magic Wand (Deep External Pressure)

Why it works for squirting:

Magic Wand vibrators have broad, powerful vibration that stimulates not only the clitoris, but surrounding erectile tissue as well. The wider stimulation can create strong pelvic floor contractions during orgasm — which for some people leads to squirting even without internal stimulation.

Best for:

• Grinding or pressure-based stimulation.
• People who need strong clitoral vibration to orgasm.
• Full-body orgasms and fast buildup.

Technique tip:

Grind the wand against the vulva instead of holding it still — steady pressure + rubbing usually produces stronger buildup toward squirting.

What is grinding? My guide to grinding toys covers positioning and tips for toys you hump on.

Dual Stimulating Squirting

Other folks find squirting easiest when both internal and external stimulation happen at the same time. Dual-stimulation toys combine clitoral suction with G-spot vibration, with blended orgasms as the goal.

This approach often works well for edging: allowing arousal to climb gradually until both types of stimulation peak together.

Womanizer Duo (Blended Stimulation)

Why it works for squirting:

The Womanizer Duo 2 combines strong air pulse stimulation with rumbly G-spot vibration, and feels luxurious. Its combination of thumping Pleasure Air and deep vibration can make it easier to reach the level of arousal where squirting happens naturally during orgasm.

Best for:

• People who enjoy blended orgasms.
• Slower edging and sustained buildup.
• Those who struggle to orgasm from internal or external stimulation alone.

Technique tip:

Let intensity build gradually instead of starting on high settings — dual stimulation tends to work best when arousal increases slowly over time.

Tracy’s Dog (Budget Dual Stimulation)

Why it works for squirting:

The Tracy’s Dog OG combines clitoral suction with flexible internal vibration — so it’s 2× stimulation without rigid pressure. While its air pulse tech is less powerful than premium dual toys, the combination itself can still produce strong buildup for some users.

Best for:

• Trying dual stimulation for the first time.
• Flexible internal stimulation.

Technique tip:

Rock the toy gently to feel the light stimulation ridges on the G-spot vibrator, while the clitoral “mouth” stays aligned.

Are Squirting Orgasms More Intense or *Better*?

Some articles centered around “how to squirt” will have you believe that squirting is absolutely the best sexual experience a woman (or anyone with a clit and vagina) can have.

Squirting orgasms may be very intense. They are not necessarily the best orgasms, at any given time for any given person. That’s too simple an equation.

I totally understand why squirting is popular in pornography and anywhere kinky. Because it’s sometimes hard to tell if a woman is orgasming. A flood, then, is an obvious visual cue. (“Look at how hard she’s coming, it’s all over the place!”)

But: Squirting can happen without orgasm; and mind-blowing multiple orgasms can happen without squirting.

What Is Squirting?

Any sex toy guide with sex tips for making yourself squirt (or helping a partner get there!) will at some point have to tackle: What is squirting? Why are these fluids expelled, is it just bad bladder control? Is squirting pee?

It’s a debate, even in sex education circles; the true nature of squirting is terribly unstudied in medical literature, like too many issues relating to vaginal, vulvar, and clitoral health.¹ We only have a few studies, the most discussed one finding that “squirt” is mostly urine but some squirters secrete PSA (prostate specific antigen) from their “Skene’s glands” and related ducts, sometimes called the “female prostate.”

My take: The very limited research we possess mainly shows that people are different. Squirting can contain different chemical compositions person by person, and happen for different reasons. But even if squirt contains mostly pee, why is that a problem? (Is it less desirable if the Skene glands aren’t involved?) And if we fret about that, might are we not taking away from the sexiness of the act of squirting?

The urethral sponge does naturally prevent fluids from being expelled when anything is inside the vagina. This is why squirting from sex (penis-in-vagina sex) is much tougher to achieve. It’s why you need the weight of stainless steel, or to train yourself to push out (when orgasming vaginally) or to start dripping, then spurting (from clitoral stimulation).

In the end, whether Gspot toys get you there; whether it’s a potent clit suction toy; whether it’s a partner’s fingers rub-rub-rubbing; whether it’s the legendary Njoy Pure Wand or a soft silicone ridged dildo that unlocks your squirting potential; or whether you just don’t end up gushing, your sex life has seen an interesting new exploration. Have fun along the way!

NOTE

1. We have data out the wazoo about median penis size both flaccid and erect, but try to find any stats on average vagina size and it’s like: “Uh…well…here’s a 55-year-old study of 100 women that’s apparently the only authoritative one… But we know the vagina is elastic! We’re sure it can get bigger when aroused, and vagina size varies some! We just aren’t sure how much, though!!!” ↩︎