Review: Pillow Talk Sassy Vibrator by BMS

Pillow Talk Sassy vibrator review

I love Pillow Talk Sassy over any other vibrator (besides Magic Wand Rechargeable).1 When I started this Pillow Talk Sassy review, the words that popped into my head were: “The best G-spot vibe since sliced bread!”

It took me a second to realize that this phrasing was not only WAY superlative, but also didn’t really make any sense. But I’m running with it anyway, because Pillow Talk Sassy outright demands all the flattering words I can hurl its way.

This Pillow Talk vibrator by BMS Factory delivers:

  • custom speed choice,
  • seriously rumbly power,
  • and super-silky silicone—
  • for a not-too-luxe price: under $50.2

Sassy feels like a luxury vibrator; far surpasses the Lelo Mona 2, for example. Gone are the days when you’d have to pay $120+ to get an insertable vibrator worth raving about. (Yup, that’s looking at you, We-Vibe Rave.)

And if internal vibes don’t do much for you, then Sassy’s curve and length make it easy to hold as a clit toy too. It’s the one I always take on trips to see my long-distance partner, because we know I’ll be squirting in short order.

Here’s more about why Pillow Talk Sassy by BMS Factory is my #1 multipurpose vibe.

Pillow Talk Sassy’s Shape

Pillow Talk Sassy has a beautiful curve—like any G-spot toy, it leans forward, but the large bulb (the head) gently tapers into the shaft. This is a big deal for me because the “egg on a stick” G-spot vibe design—the kind with a really slim shaft under its head—doesn’t stimulate the mouth of my vagina like I like.

BMS Pillow Talk Sassy flexible body

Sassy’s average-sized shaft and bulbous head just feel right together. The curve is there, but it’s not so dramatic as to be uncomfortable.

Sassy is also a lot more flexible than I’d expected. I think this makes it much more comfortable when I get close to orgasm and, inevitably, start thrusting the toy. (I love thrusting toys!) And, when I’m using Sassy on my clit, the vibe’s slight bend wraps around my pubic mound more naturally.

Pillow Talk Sassy’s impact isn’t so hard and focused like the Njoy Pure Wand’s big curve and weighty pressure; instead, Sassy works so effectively because of its bad-ass motor.

And the *Power*

If you haven’t felt rumbly power before, then welcome to the party—the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy will be the one who invites you inside. Its vibes start out so deep, and they stay deep and penetrating even as the power level starts to increase. Maybe about 75% of the way up through the intensity progression, Sassy does start moving toward “buzzy”—but I’d argue the same about the ultra-rumbly We-Vibe Tango’s third steady speed, and definitely its fourth one.

Sassy gets much stronger than I’d expect from a vibe at this price point. So much so that I once confused the Pillow Talk Sassy with the Magic Wand (Plus)—a legendary name among powerful vibrators. Here’s the story: I was in a hotel room with my lover, who directed me to stay pressed up against the window until he came back to me. A minute or two later, he’d looked in my suitcase and picked out a toy (there were a fair number of options that weekend!). Since I couldn’t see anything except the curtain in front of my face, I didn’t know WTF he was doing—until the vibrator started against my vulva, pressing into me from behind. At first, I could’ve sworn it was the Magic Wand Plus on the lowest level, Sassy’s vibes felt so intense. I came fast.

Most of the time, though, I’m using Pillow Talk Sassy solo. And the beautiful thing about its controls is that there are no preset speeds. Also, no patterns. If you’ve ever used a vibe with too many patterns before, let that sink in. Sure, up-and-down control buttons are ideal when a vibe has a lot of patterns—but what if you’re one of the many people who find patterned vibrations about as useful as air conditioning in Antarctica? And what about those times when you get the up button and the down button confused and it throws off your rhythm?

With the Pillow Talk Sassy, you just hold down the control button, then take your finger off when you get to an intensity that appeals to you. If you want the vibe to increase in power more later in your session, press and hold again. Getting used to this “incremental speed control” took me a few trial runs, because just hitting the button once will turn off the vibe. But now that I’m adjusted, I think it’s easier than up-and-down arrows

BMS Pillow Talk Sassy vs. Pillow Talk Flirty

Finally, a note on BMS Factory’s renowned “PowerBullet technology.” BMS makes high-quality motors—but not all of them are exactly the same. In fact, for the first 8 months after I learned of Sassy’s existence, I ignored it. What happened was that I got a Pillow Talk Flirty bullet first, and its power was, like, OK, but didn’t bowl me over. But I kept reading review after review saying how good Sassy was. Eventually it dawned on me: Pillow Talk Flirty (the bullet) and Pillow Talk Sassy (the G-spot vibe) both promise PowerBullet technology, but they have different motors. Both vibes are rumbly—but Flirty is just good, while Sassy kicks major butt.

The Look!

The BMS Pillow Talk Vibrators as a whole just look cute—you’d be hard-pressed to find a more attractive vibrator lineup, apart from the Zalo vibes and their gold touches plus crystal.

Sassy comes in a light teal (seen in the Flirty bullet, above) and in the rose pink I own. Both colors coordinate well with the silver touches and the crystal control buttons. But when I’m actually using Sassy, what matters to me is feel, and that’s where the silkiness of the silicone coating matters.

Pillow Talk Sassy handle

I’m a very tactile person, and I love the diamond-pattern grip on this vibe—the extra sensation on my fingers. Don’t me wrong: most of the time my attention is entirely devoted to Pillow Talk Sassy’s vibes on my G-spot or clit. But the easy-grip handle is a lovely bonus.

Mainly, I ignore the metal connector between the shaft’s silicone and the handle’s silicone, except for running my finger around it occasionally when I clean. If you want to be really thorough, Pillow Talk vibes come with a small brush that you can use on the metal section, and with a satin storage pouch.

Finally, I need to say, “Thank you thank you thank you” to BMS Factory for labeling Pillow Talk Sassy’s recharging cord with a tag showing Sassy’s name and the outline of the toy. When you have too many charging cables like I do, premarked cords are a small blessing.

Overall Thoughts

The BMS Pillow Talk Sassy is a vibrator so good for my body that I started trying to write about it immediately after I turned it on, before it even went near my genitals.3

This Pillow Talk vibrator is so good, it’s inspired me to compose a comparative guide to G-spot vibrators. It’s so good, I keep removing bold and italics from this review because I don’t want to seem like I’m yelling all the time. If I could rate this vibrator a 6 out of 5 instead of 5/5, I would.

The vibration quality is first-rate. Pillow Talk Sassy reaches a pretty high level of power at top speed, but it also starts low. That’s why I’ll happily recommend Sassy to both the first-time vibe buyer and someone who’s used toys extensively. It’s excellent for both G-spot and clit. Plus the price point is unbelievable for the quality. It’s easily earned its 5/5 star rating for me, constantly maintaining a place on my drying rack (and I have a lot of choices!).

I’d only steer vibe-seekers away from the Pillow Talk Sassy if they need very firm G-spot pressure: in which case I’d recommend the Blush Wellness G Curve (sleek shape, very good power, just barely flexible) or We-Vibe Rave (unyielding, with lots of rumble, plus app control) instead.

Find Pillow Talk Sassy here in teal or pink.

NOTES

  1. I think it’s a tie between these two, because they do different things for me!
  2. Use code FELICITY at Peepshow here (“gift card or coupon code” box at checkout) to bring the total to $48.60.
  3. But then I spent several months testing and retesting it, as I put together my G-spot vibe guide. Sorry, Jopen Key Comet II, your shape is great, but there’s just no competition vibration-quality-wise.
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One thought on “Review: Pillow Talk Sassy Vibrator by BMS

  1. Liz Elliot

    March 18, 2019 at 4:10pm

    REALLY BETTER THAN THE COMET? Gosh that’s exciting, I’ve been thinking of getting it for myself. And your metaphors are delightful; air conditioner in Antarctica made me snicker.

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      Felicity

      March 18, 2019 at 4:49pm

      Vs. Key Comet II, it depends because with the Comet, you can really tell its origins as a pure G-spot dildo. It’s so much about the pressure (not that the Comet’s vibe quality isn’t good). With Sassy you have that extra flexibility that I love, but it’s not BULBOUS and HARD (yet silky) like the Comet wand. Sassy is rumblier and has the wider range of vibration intensity, though!

  2. Freckles

    February 20, 2020 at 11:43am

    Any thoughts about using this anally? I have a prostate and think I want something like this.

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      Felicity

      February 22, 2020 at 5:28pm

      I can’t recommend it for anal use because it doesn’t have the flared base, so (especially if you have experience with deeper play) it could potentially get sucked into the rectum.

      The Blush Impressions toys, though, are equally strong and do have that flared base. N5 has the most spot-friendly head, IMO.

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