Pillow Talk Sassy Review – Favorite Vibrator EVER

I love the Pillow Talk Sassy, over every other vibrator. When I started this Pillow Talk Sassy review 4 years ago, the words that popped into my head were: “The best G-spot vibe since sliced bread!”

That phrasing didn’t make much sense literally; but I felt the Sassy vibrator outright demanded all the flattering words. Deep, rumbly vibration + adjustable intensity control + fantastic G-spotting head: Count me in!!!

Now, in 2023, I’ve been using the Sassy for over 4 years consistently. So many hundreds of orgasms it’s given me, I just keep comin’ (back)!!!

And, Sassy ($59.99) is not just a G-spot vibrator: it’s damn good for rumbly clitoral stimulation, too. My full updated experience:

Pros & Cons

Pros:

  • Extra rumbly vibration feel.
  • Customized power: Incremental Speed Control gives you access to the full intensity range.
  • Super-silky silicone.
  • G-spot curve + bulbous head for G-spot stimulation.
  • The curved shape is great for clitoral massage, too.
  • Slightly flexible neck = comfort.
  • USB rechargeable; ≈ 3 hours of battery life.
  • Very quiet for its vibration power!
  • Awesome price (under $60) for its excellent motor.

Cons:

  • Moderately broad stimulation: Whereas some people prefer pinpoint clitoral stimulation, like a focused vibrator or an air pulse stimulator.
  • Slightly flexible: Whereas some people need hard G-spot pressure, like a glass or steel dildo.
  • No patterns, which is fantastic IMO; but some users enjoy different on-off vibration rhythms.
  • Press & hold button control takes a couple sessions to get used to.
  • Water-resistant (I use mine in the shower!), but not waterproof submersible for underwater use.

More about why Pillow Talk Sassy by BMS Factory is my #1 multipurpose vibe:

Vibration Functions & Power

If you haven’t felt rumbly power before, then welcome to the party—the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy will be the one who invites you inside. Its vibrations start out so deep, and they stay deep and penetrating even as the power level starts to increase.

Pillow Talk Sassy rumbly vibration
Rumbly vibes that make my hand quake!

Sassy feels like a luxury vibrator; far surpasses the Lelo Mona 2’s vibration options and rumbliness, for example. Gone are the days when you’d have to pay $120+ to get an insertable vibrator worth raving about. (Yup, that’s looking at you, We-Vibe Rave.)

About 75% of the way up through the intensity progression, Sassy does start moving slightly toward “buzzy”—this is common for even very deep vibes as you turn ’em up, like even in the ultra-rumbly We-Vibe Tango’s final 3 intensity levels.

Sassy Vibration Quality:

  • Rumble: From 9.5 to 7.25 / 10 for vibration depth.
  • Strength: From 5.0 to 8.25 / 10 for vibration strength.
  • Fully adjustable vibe intensity!
  • Noise: From 28 to 35 decibels when inserted for G-spot; from 37 to 43 decibels held externally. Very quiet for its power.
Pillow Talk Sassy review - vibrator power statistics, noise level

Sassy gets much stronger than I’d expect from a vibe at this price point ($50 to $60). So much so that I once confused the Pillow Talk Sassy with the Magic Wand (Plus)—a legendary name among powerful vibrators. Here’s the story: I was in a hotel room with my lover, who directed me to stay pressed up against the window until he came back to me. A minute or two later, he’d looked in my suitcase and picked out a toy. Since I couldn’t see anything except the curtain in front of my face, I didn’t know WTF he was doing—until the vibrator started against my vulva, pressing into me from behind. At first, I could’ve sworn it was the Magic Wand Plus on the lowest level, Sassy’s vibes felt so intense. I came fast.

Pillow Talk Sassy vibrator

Most of the time, though, I’m using Pillow Talk Sassy solo. And the beautiful thing about its controls is that there are no preset speeds. Also, no patterns. If you’ve ever used a vibe with too many patterns before, let that sink in. Sure, (+) and (–) control buttons are ideal when a vibe has a lot of patterns—but what if you’re one of the many people who find patterned vibrations about as useful as air conditioning in Antarctica? And what about those times when you get the up button and the down button confused and it throws off your rhythm? Instead, here’s how to use Sassy:

How to Operate Pillow Talk Sassy

How-to with the Sassy’s 1 button Incremental Speed Control:

  1. First, it arrives travel-locked. To unlock: Press the power button 3 times quickly (tap-tap-tap).
  2. The vibrator will buzz twice, showing it’s ready to use.
  3. Then, press down on the button again.
  4. Hold down for at least 1 full second to increase vibration strength.
  5. Continue holding the power button to up the power.
  6. Remove your finger when you’re at an intensity level you like.
  7. If you’d like to increase more after that, just hold the button down again.
  8. To return to low speed quickly, tap the button twice: Once to turn off, once to return to the low end of the speed range.
  9. Or, tap the button to power off.

It really is much easier than those full instructions indicate (post-travel lock). Just press and hold down on the power button to *up* the power; or tap it lightly to turn it off.

Getting used to this “incremental speed control” took me a few trial runs, because just hitting the button once will turn off the vibrator. But now that I’m adjusted, I think it’s easier than up-and-down arrowsAnd, years later, Incremental “Press & Hold” Control is my favorite system of vibrator control, because it gives me choices—I’m not limited to a few strength levels that some engineer somewhere randomly put into place, like with most vibrators’ 2 to 3 steady speeds.

Pillow Talk Sassy - how to control
To control Pillow Talk Sassy: Press down on the single button!

Shape: G-spot or Clitoral Stimulation

Pillow Talk Sassy has a beautiful curve—like any G-spot toy, it leans forward, but the large bulb (the head) gently tapers into the shaft. This is a big deal for me because the “egg on a stick” G-spot vibe design—the kind with a really slim shaft under its head—doesn’t stimulate the mouth of my vagina like I like.

And if internal vibes don’t do much for you, then Sassy’s curve and length make it easy to hold as a clitoral stimulator too. It’s the one I always took on trips to see my long-distance partner, because we knew I’d be squirting in short order as he rubbed it outside my vulva; the Sassy just does it for me.

BMS Pillow Talk Sassy flexible body

Sassy’s average-sized shaft and bulbous head just feel right together. The curve is there, but it’s not so dramatic as to be uncomfortable.

Sassy is also a lot more flexible than I’d expected. I think this makes it much more comfortable when I get close to orgasm and, inevitably, start thrusting the toy. (I love thrusting toys!) And, when I’m using Sassy on my clit, the vibe’s slight bend wraps around my pubic mound more naturally. This is not super soft silicone; it’s a thin coat of firm, satiny silicone over a yielding lower shaft. As much as I love super-soft silicone, the Sassy Gspot stimulator is tops without it.

Pillow Talk Sassy’s impact isn’t so hard and focused like the Njoy Pure Wand’s big curve and weighty pressure; instead, Sassy works so effectively because of its bad-ass motor. And its smoothness, how beautifully that bulbous head feels when it bends.

Pillow Talk Sassy “Deluxe” Version

The lilac, Deluxe Pillow Talk Sassy was released in 2022. It’s a mini “couples kit,” in that it has foreplay cards you can use with a partner, plus silky sash that could be a blindfold. The cards are very basic, fun for a one-night tease, and the blindfold is… OK. It’ll work. Really, the lilac color is the biggest advantage to this set, IMO; it’s pretty.

Pillow Talk Sassy Deluxe vibrator review

All Pillow Talk Sassy colors (teal, pink, purple) do include a storage pouch, instructions, and of course the charging cable:

How to Recharge; Battery Life

The Sassy uses a pin charger, whose prong you insert in a hole marked out into the side of the silicone. Be sure to insert the prong fully. The ring around Sassy’s power button will light up when this is accomplished, to show its receiving power. It is USB compatible.

Pillow Talk Sassy how to recharge

The Sassy has about 2 hours battery life per charge, which lasts me a week or more between recharges.

I need to say, “Thank you thank you thank you” to BMS Factory for labeling Pillow Talk Sassy’s recharging cord with a tag showing Sassy’s name and the outline of the toy. When you have too many charging cables like I do, premarked cords are a small blessing.

Care & Cleaning

Awww yeah, the silkiness of the silicone coating matters. So much better than hard, slick ABS plastic. Pillow Talk Sassy is body-safe silicone, with a connector ring of nonporous metal between the vibrator’s shaft and handle.

To clean, simply wash with soap and running water in your sink. The indent might capture some lube & fluids, so just run your finger over that section.

The Pillow Talk Sassy is water-resistant, and I use mine in the shower all the time. It’s not recommended to use it underwater in the bathtub, since it’s not rated for full submersion; but it stands up to jets of spraying water.

Pillow Talk Sassy handle

I’m a very tactile person, and I love the diamond-pattern grip on this vibe—the extra sensation on my fingers. Don’t me wrong: most of the time my attention is entirely devoted to Pillow Talk Sassy’s vibes on my G-spot or clit. But the easy-grip handle is a lovely bonus.

Mainly, I ignore the metal connector between the shaft’s silicone and the handle’s silicone, except for running my finger around it occasionally when I clean. If you want to be really thorough, Pillow Talk vibes come with a small brush that you can use on the metal section, and with a satin storage pouch.

Recap & Ranking

The BMS Pillow Talk Sassy is a vibrator so good for my body that I started trying to write about it immediately after I turned it on, before it even went near my genitals. Years later, it remains my absolute, 100% fave; over the other ≈600 vibrators lying, piled, drawered, and stacked up around my home and garage.

This Pillow Talk vibrator is so good, it inspired me to compose a comparative guide to G-spot vibrators. It’s so good, I keep removing bold and italics from this review because I don’t want to seem like I’m yelling all the time. If I could rate this vibrator a 6 out of 5 instead of 5/5, I would.

The vibration quality is first-rate. Pillow Talk Sassy reaches a pretty high level of power at top speed, but it also starts mild. That’s why I’ll happily recommend Sassy to both the first-time vibe buyer and someone who’s used toys extensively. It’s excellent for both G-spot and clit. Plus the price point is unbelievable for the quality. It’s easily earned its 5/5 star rating for me, constantly maintaining a place on my drying rack or my bedside vibrator basket.

I’d only steer vibe-seekers away from the Pillow Talk Sassy if they need very firm G-spot pressure or want a focused clitoral toy.

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NOTES

6 thoughts on “Pillow Talk Sassy Review – Favorite Vibrator EVER”

  1. REALLY BETTER THAN THE COMET? Gosh that’s exciting, I’ve been thinking of getting it for myself. And your metaphors are delightful; air conditioner in Antarctica made me snicker.

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    • Vs. Key Comet II, it depends because with the Comet, you can really tell its origins as a pure G-spot dildo. It’s so much about the pressure (not that the Comet’s vibe quality isn’t good). With Sassy you have that extra flexibility that I love, but it’s not BULBOUS and HARD (yet silky) like the Comet wand. Sassy is rumblier and has the wider range of vibration intensity, though!

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    • I can’t recommend it for anal use because it doesn’t have the flared base, so (especially if you have experience with deeper play) it could potentially get sucked into the rectum.

      The Blush Impressions toys, though, are equally strong and do have that flared base. N5 has the most spot-friendly head, IMO.

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  2. how long has your sassy lasted? mine lasted about 2 years before it would no longer hold a charge. I really loved this vibe, and I want another g-spot vibe, but I’m not sure if mine was a fluke or if I should invest in a vibe that will last longer. I’m considering this versus the rave 2, which is much more expensive, but we-vibe stuff lasts forever. help?

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    • Li-ion batteries in vibrators do have a limited lifespan, more limited than other personal electronics, unfortunately, in almost all cases. 2 to 3 years is a good run for a vibrator.

      My We-Vibe Nova and Melt both got weird between 2 and 3 years of frequent use, so I had to get replacements. My first Sassy was still running after 3 years, but the vibration was more intermittent, like it was kinda cutting out, so I got a replacement there when the new color came out.

      If you like thrusting the Sassy (in and out vaginally, like a dildo), definitely avoid the Rave 1 or 2, because the Rave has the wonky sideways shape that’s irritating to jerk in and out. It’s for twisting or steady vibration only.

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