Oxballs Review: Buddy Dildo

Behold Buddy, a beautiful blue bulk o’ super-soft silicone. In Oxballs’ signature Blueballs color, the Buddy dildo is a toy that I’d want in my sex toy collection just to look at. This Oxballs review gonna include lots of pics, so you can admire it too. Not to mention that Buddy is my favorite kind of super-soft toy: thick but not long. Chode-y—just like my other frequently used Oxballs toy, the Honcho rainbow plug.

Words like “plump,” “stretchy,” “wide,” and “FAT” spring to mind. All good words for me. Expansive terms. For a dildo that will fill me just the right way, my perfect width (2 inches) and not so much length (5 inches).

Oxballs’ “Buddy” is indeed friends with my vag—and it’s a dildo made for anal filling too. I’ll tell you how this silicone dildo by Oxballs rolls, from the head down to the balls.

Oxballs Blueballs Silicone

The Blueballs color is so good: two shades of blue, marbled with silver glitter. It’s got this sparkly effect, the perfect blue-blue color I was searching for when I started collecting silicone fantasy dildos. And like a good fantasy dildo, Oxballs silicone toys are handmade of platinum silicone.

Oxballs’ trademark Blueballs is also found in Oxballs cock rings, and now in Peepshow Toys’ Ergo chunky butt plug too, seen below:

The Buddy dildo’s Blueballs silicone is super-soft, like a fantasy toy “medium” density (00-50-Shore-ish). It’s the firmness that most people’s brains interpret as “fleshy.” Start thrusting it, all lubed up, and you may very well think of getting pummeled by a thick cock. (One with long, dangly stress-balls attached.)

In their cock rings, like Cock-T and Balls-T, Oxballs calls the firmness “blubbery.” It’s like an extra layer of thick padding added on/under your package, to keep an erection hard or push it forward for a “bulge” effect.

See the squish (video includes sound):

Buddy’s Thickness

A bit tamer than the Demonicsex dildo by Oxballs, or the Tres Leches three-in-one dildo 😱, Oxballs’ Buddy is a manageable toy if you’re used to wide (but not mega-stretching) thickness. Its size is within the realm of possibility for a human penis—rare, but not unheard of.

Sure, Oxballs is a gay-male-targeted company, but rules are made to be broken. Here’s why Buddy is my favorite Oxballs dildo for women.

Buddy demands descriptors like “broad” and even “beefy,” with its 2-inch thickness (way above average) but 5-inch insertable length (a bit below average). In super-soft toys, I gravitate toward Buddy’s exact dimensions. A toy so squishy, so flexible, needs to be thick for its length if it’s going to feel at all lifelike. A longer toy in the same density (or even a harder one!) will flop all around. And feel less erect.

But Buddy is proportioned so that it’s very squeezable, it’s fleshy, but it’s also not folding in half on me while I jerk it. Buddy’s last inch is still quite flexible, but I’m not getting a really floppy / flaccid feel. Instead, I feel filled up.

Buddy’s Head & Shaft

Buddy is phallic (penis-like) in a subtle way. The front side of this silicone dick is smooth, with an abstracted cockhead. There are no skin lines or raised veins. Buddy’s corona is a small ridge, just a hint of texture. A bit of a tease by itself, so I pull out my #1 clit toy to use during vaginal sex. Buddy & We-Vibe Melt make me feel full, plus taken care of.

Buddy’s best feature for me? Its back side, which is so interesting as Buddy slides in and out.

Buddy has a huge raised ridge: the kind of exaggeration I love to find in a soft silicone fantasy toy! The material’s squishy-squashiness reminds me the most delightful large finger, massaging. Where the back of Buddy’s head meets that vertical ridge—that’s where the action happens against my G-spot.

The *BALLS*, Right??

Dem balls, dem balls! They dangle, they wiggle, they’re just right to squeeze. When I’m thrusting Buddy “head up”—like if it was a man I was having missionary sex with—I have to work around them. They’re long, they interfere with my grip a little.

But flip Buddy 180 degrees, so its long vertical ridge is fingering my G-spot, and the balls are positioned for the squishing. Definitely my best Buddy experience.

And the other use for the long, dangly balls? In a harness, of course. Besides stuffing my vag with Buddy, I’ve stuck its soft silicone shaft into a harness, where the extended balls cover and wrap around my mons. I like that extra weight there, the added (soft) pressure. Inside the SpareParts Joque, I can also stick a We-Vibe Tango into the bullet vibe slot and let Buddy’s balls vibrate. Since Tango is soooo rumbly and direct, having that layer of squishiness in place between it and my sensitive clit is actually more comfortable.

Vs. Other Short, Stout Silicone

Here’s a quick run-down of my other thick n short (with one exception) favorites, from left to right:

• SquarePegToys Dirk uncut dildos (actual size pictured): *So much* skin texture with both Dirk actual size and the thicker Dirk 1X: comparison here. Both are lifecast from an actual human being. Handmade.
• Buddy! Squishy, BLUE, thick throughout, with that big ridge down the back. Handmade.
• Topher Michels (Original size pictured): Also a realistic (porn star!) lifecast, but with a smooth finish. Topher has a sweet curve for G/P-spot. Its head is smaller, which I personally need for anal purposes (easier to get in). I love to make it vibrate. Handmade.
• Blush Neo Elite 7″: Dual-density! Smooth, soft outside over a hard core, so it doesn’t bend so much when you thrust fast. Also has a good suction cup. Mass-produced.
• NS Colours Dual Density 8″: The longest of the bunch. Also dual-density, with firm balls. Pronounced, squishy ridge and lots of veins: lube, lube, lube. Pretty good suction cup. Mass-produced, feels cheaper.

And vs. the Oxballs Honcho 2, pictured in the next section: Honcho 2 is my #1 butt plug used vaginally. Because it’s phallic (big coronal ridge!), the oval base sits between my labia perfectly, the thin neck keep the thickness locked in, and it’s the best possible length (no cervix problems). Honcho stretches me even more than Buddy, because the Honcho size 2 I own is 0.3″ wider. The big flat head takes a little work to insert, but when it’s in: I feel FULL. Honcho is not good for thrusting, though, as the neck is super-duper floppy. It is a plug, after all: meant to go in, then sit still.

How to Clean Oxballs Sex Toys

So these instructions apply to Oxballs’ platinum silicone sex toys. Their TPR and TPR/silicone blend (“Plus+Silicone”) toys are not sanitizable: you can only wash TPR toys with soap and water, then dry as much as possible, so mold doesn’t start growing. You cannot deep-clean an Oxballs Cocksling 2 (TPR) like you can an Oxballs Ballbender (100% silicone), to name just one toy. See my full sex toy materials guide for details.

Or, if you’re ultra-lazy / have too many toys like me, then just rinse your fluids off Buddy and stick it in a ultraviolet light sanitizing bag. It kills 99.9% of germs (bacteria, fungi, yeast, and viruses) and you don’t have to deal with the harshness of bleach or alcohol (or hot boiling water). The UV light even hits microbes in hard-to-reach crevices. Bonus: Also kill anything living on your phone or car keys.

Overall Thoughts

Buddy by Oxballs is such a fun pummeling. I like the variety of the two sides: (1) the front being smooth and meaty, and (2) the back having that big ridge that’s like being stroked by a squishy finger—while my opening is also being stretched.

It’s the squishy & sparkly BLUE fantasy dildo my collection was definitely lacking before this. A hole filled, if you will.

Find the Oxballs Buddy here.

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