The BMS Factory Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo doesn’t stand out when you’re looking at it online. Just another realistic dildo, yeah? But I took it out of its box, and everything changed—
Because the BMS Naked Addiction 8″ Dual is high up among the best-feeling realistic dildos I’ve encountered. After 10 years of enthusiastically collecting, and 5 years of reviewing silicone dildos, I am still impressed by its lifelike feel.
So what’s the deal? Why did the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo make me revise my favorite dildos list?
Pros & Cons
The Naked Addiction 8″ Silicone Dildo is dual-density, meaning:
Pros
- Two layers: Soft “skin” + harder core, to imitiate a real erection.
- 100% body-safe silicone.
- Skin textures have a lifelike feel: neither smooth & slick, nor draggy.
- Strong suction cup.
- Squishy balls.
- 3 color options.
Cons
- Not great for P-spot / G-spot stimulation.
- Users who like a slick feel (not skin textures) will prefer VixSkin.
- Only 1 size! Some folks will prefer larger or smaller.
Naked Addiction Dual Density Silicone
The silicone finish is key: I hadda make a bold claim here: Step aside, VixSkin. Vixen Creations’ fan-favorited, dual-density dildo lineup has a reputation for excellence, for creating a very lifelike feel. And I think the BMS Naked Addiction Dual Density is even nicer for overall realism.
Why? Well, VixSkin silicone has a surface finish that’s super-smooth, almost glossy when lubricated. Some people love that smoothness! They like the slick glide! But me, I like pores, I like veins, I like folds of skin. The whole package. And the Naked Addiction Dual’s realistic micro-detailing is better. Must be thousands of little dimples, skin lines, veiny textures.
The BMS Naked Addiction dildo also has a silkier feel out of box, a finish it’s tough to find the right word for. A matte silicone suavite. And, it’s not so very sticky like many soft silicone dildos are. It doesn’t draw every single hair within a 10-foot radius.
In short, the Naked Addiction Dual is this amazing balance of detailed…but still smooth. I may be a little obsessed with how great the silicone finish is. It’s so soft, it almost reminds me of skin.
Super-Soft Silicone
I always sigh at reviews or product descriptions that describe a toy as feeling “just like the real thing.” That’s something that I’ve never experienced in a dildo, because no matter how well-made a toy is, it’s always gonna be an inanimate object. (Which is not 100% a bad thing! Body-safe dildos arrive germ-free, and never dismiss your wants & desires!)
In any dual-density dildo, the balance of firmnesses impacts how lifelike it feels, too. The softness of the outer layer, the hardness of the inner layer, and the thickness of both.
And for me, the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo’s shaft is such a good balance of hard and soft. (It’s a super-soft 00-30 Shore outside, and a 20A core [presumably, since the suction cup is 20A and that feeds into the core]). That’s as soft as VixSkin; but not so hard within that I notice the core being much harder than an erection, like in the Shaft dildos.
Inevitably, if the dual-layer dildo’s shaft is a lifelike firmness, then its tip (top of its head) is gonna feel a little soft—squishier than an erection. That’s the price of dual-density shaft awesomeness.
The Naked Addiction 8″ Dildo is ≈ 5.5 inches of usable (shaft length). It’s 1.5 inches diameter across the head, while the shaft measures from 1.6 to 1.75 inches diameter.
My Naked Addiction Dildo Experience
If I’m caught up in a fantasy or listening to porn, I can totally take the Naked Addiction Dual Density for an actual penis, momentarily. One night I was talking to my lover on the phone while I was screwing myself with the Naked Addiction Dual. When he asked how it was, and I promptly responded that the toy was so realistic, it made me wish I was riding him. Like, the dildo was lifelike enough that I almost felt like there should be a body attached.
I later decided that the Naked Addiction Dual plus Liberator Wing toy mount are the best way I’ve ever found to replicate cowgirl style riding.
I’ve used this dildo consistently for 4 years now, and the filling thrust is always so good. Often, I can come just on the 1.75-inch-diameter (at widest, at the bottom) shaft; but other times, I do need a clit stimulator because the Naked Addiction Dual doesn’t have a pronounced ridge to massage my G-spot enough. I recommend the Pillow Talk Racy and the We-Vibe Melt the most, for ease of use as you thrust the Naked Addiction Dildo!
G-Spot Stimulation: If Only
The Naked Addiction Dual features a straight (and semi-flexible) shaft and a subtle coronal ridge. I call its effect “overall realism”: it’s not brilliant as a pure G-spot dildo.
To achieve G-spot/prostate greatness—like the VixSkin Mustang or the weighty Njoy Pure Wand—a toy needs a protruding head and/or a forward curve, for that extra impact. You’ve gotta push inward to hit the G-spot (linked to the erectile tissue surrounding the urethra, in front of the vag) or prostate (similarly, in front of the rectum). Happily for me, I do crave a broad realistic feel a lot… sometimes I look elsewhere for stronger spot-massage, though. See how a true G-spot dildo (Uberrime Splendid) has a curve and ridge that sticks out more, vs. the Addiction 8″ Dildo:
Squeezable Balls & Base: Ease of Use
I’ve talked about the Naked Addiction Dual’s head and shaft a lot…but the balls keep drawing me back in as well. The Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo’s balls are delightfully squishable. Usually I find dildo balls a pain in the ass (or wrist?) because I tend to thrust my toys quickly, by hand. This dildo’s pair, though, seems like it was crafted to fit into my palm while I’m thrusting. The balls are compact, and flat on all sides, so they’re easier to grip. I also like the sensation of the ridgy scrotum texture on my fingers.
At first I was puzzled by the large “bump” in the ball sack, right where the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo’s balls meet the shaft. It looks a little unusual, I’ve never seen that in a person. Then one day, while riding, I took Naked Addiction’s full length and realized that the extra bulge gives vaginal mouth and even clitoral stimulation at the right angle. I can also see it as providing light perineal stim if you’re taking it anally.
Strong Suction Cup
Below the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo’s squeeze-worthy balls is a suction cup—very useful if you like hands-free play and don’t want to shell out for a sex toy mount that’ll hold a suction-cup-less toy. I give the suction cup a 9/10 for staying power. It works well, consistently.
And when I’m not using the suction cup, I appreciate the Naked Addiction dildo base isn’t too big to hold easily in my hands and thrust away. But who am I kidding, I’m usually gripping the soft balls for dear life, using those as a handle.
Addiction 8″ Cosmic & Caramel Dildo Colors
The Naked Addiction 8″ Dildo is now in “Cosmic” blue, plus caramel and the original. I’m a fan of the caramel,
because it’s vaguely humanoid (more than the super-white one), but the Cosmic Naked Addiction is a fun addition! I know sometimes folks get creeped out by disembodied phalluses, so non-fleshy colors help. Every Naked Addiction Dual 8″ arrives in a sturdy box, with a storage pouch:
Care & Cleaning Dual-Density Silicone
Dual-density silicone doesn’t require different care than a normal silicone dildo, happily.
To clean, wash with soap and running water in the sink. Wash before and after use.
To sanitize—like you’d want to do if moving from anal to vaginal use, or if you have any type of preexisting infection—it can be boiled or baked. Boil for 3 minutes per side, at a rolling boil, inside a pot on the stove. (Flip with a silicone spatula after 3 minutes, if the full dildo is not covered by water, then boil another 3 minutes. A few minutes more won’t hurt the dildo, either.)
You can use any lubricant with its platinum silicone, though silicone lube will be harder to clean off. (Read more on body-safe lubes here: many water-based lubricants are not properly balanced.)
Recap & Rating
If you like realistic (and body-safe!) dildos, then I really can’t recommend the BMS Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo enough. The name is nondescript, and the color is bland; it doesn’t look exceptional. But I’m dying over how good it feels. The ideal balance of silicone firmnesses, the amazing finish, the soft and squeezable balls, and the strong suction cup all stand out. To paraphrase a cliché: You have to feel it to believe it.
The Naked Addiction Dual’s only downsides are that (1) some folks may want more G-spot or prostate stimulation than its straight shaft offers: 👋 I do, sometimes! Hence, I give this dual-layer silicone dildo a 4.75 out of 5 stars! And (2) its size, firmness, and finish won’t be right for every body. It’s slightly above average girth, with excellently-feelable skin textures; whereas some folks will prefer slicker-than-life, and others will want a harder dildo to pummel themselves with!
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Notes
I received mine in the mail about a week ago and let me just say…I’m totally jumping on the bandwagon with you to say, step aside Vixskin! This thing is glorious and I’m in love! ???? This is my new fav now. I like that its head doesn’t protrude out that much unlike Mustang because the Mustang’s head and others like it tend to hurt a bit and get caught on my pubic bone, guess cause I’m so petite perhaps. But this also feels amazing in use and I like the texture on it! Its perfect to me in every way and just what I was looking for. <3 Thank you for reviewing this! And you're my fav blogger!
Thank you so much! I’m happy you love it!!!
really curious about this thing but I can’t buy it over here in the netherlands.. was wondering what dildo comes close to this one (especially in size and feel), can you maybe give some suggestions?
Hi, thanks for reading!
For good dual-density silicone that I know is available in the Netherlands, I’d suggest either VixSkin Bandit (for a straight shape that’s more like the Naked Addiction) or VixSkin Mustang (a super-popular toy that I discuss here).
All are fairly similar in size: Mustang has a more pronounced head and an inch more insertable length than Naked Addiction, while Bandit is maybe a cm wider than Naked Addiction and Mustang’s shafts.
Do you know if I could find this in the UK? Been looking for a soft squishy silicone dildo for a while, just can’t find this one here sadly!
I also looked at several UK retailers, and the one I know that carries some BMS doesn’t have any of the dildos, only the vibes, like Pillow Talk and PalmPower. The closest option I know in a UK shop is buying VixSkin at Lovehoney.
Wow!! I just got this dildo in the mail today and tried it out. It feels amazing in my hand. When actually in use, it feels great. There isn’t any roughness and I love a strong suction cup base. I even love the box it comes in and the bag pouch. This is going to be my new favorite dildo to use. Thank you so much for writing this review. With so many dildos out there, I was not sure what to choose, but this was the perfect one for me. Everything I was looking for.
WOW I’m glad you love the toy! It makes me really happy to hear when people have found something that works great for them through my info. 💗
Worked fine for a while. I enjoy the consistent vibration mode. However after a year with it .. i can’t find the consistent vibrate mode from it anymore. Only intermittent levels are available to me. Works fine otherwise but I wish the high power push was longer and had its own mode to have it non stop.
This review is of the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo, which doesn’t have any mechanical parts.
The Naked Addiction Rotating is the only Naked Addiction toy that vibrates, and I run through its features & vibe strength here. Spoiler: It’s not my favorite rotating (or vibrating) dildo.
For the record, my favorite vibrating dildo is N1 from the Blush Impressions line! (Full Impressions comparison here.) It is much less realistic, but the vibes kick butt.
Hi, I love your reviews by the way.
I’m undecided between 3 dual density dildos for safe anal play. The dildos are the bms addiction, the blush neo elite 7.5 w/ balls and, the coulors 5″ dual density. We’re looking for the right one that would be great for vigorous play. I also want to make sure that it would be safe to use the full length of the dildo.
I really appreciate your reviews so your opinion matters to me. Thank you.
Hi, thank you so much for reading and for the kind words!
The safety of any length of toy depends on your experience level! Some folks will be great with a 7 inch dildo anally, others will max. out at 4 or 5 inches for comfort reasons (especially if they’re just starting out).
I would recommend Neo Elite 7.5 with Balls over the Colours because the Colours Dual toys I got came with the layers trying to separate.
The Naked Addiction has a more tapered head, which is nice for easier insertion, but also a little less spot (prostate / G-spot) pressure.
Check out these size comparison pics: side view ; and front view. Featuring from left to right:
Hope this helps!!!
Great review thank!
My only quibble is that this dildo is not really “average”; the length is well above average, depending on how you measure it; and and the girth is 5.5 from the mid shaft to base – which is actually quite large in the real world.
Perhaps the BMS Factory is “average” in dildo world (wherever that is, lol,)?
Thanks again!
Thank you for the compliment!!
Are you measuring tightly with the tape measure, like a flexible cloth one?
I’m getting 5 inches as the maximum circumference. Which is, to be fair, above average at above the 80% percentile for human penis girth.
Similarly, the insertable length from tip down to that scrotal ridge is about 5.75 inches, which is above average (but not really long).
I agree that dildos do tend to run above average human size, especially for length.
It’s strange because some websites seem suggest 5″ girth for addiction, or corresponding diameter.
BUT the BMS Factory website says 1.75″ diameter (5.5″ girth): https://www.bmsfactory.com/naked-addiction/naked-addiction-8-silicone-dual-density-dildo-p375.aspx
And, mine does measure 5.5″ girth at the base, using a cloth tape measure. But, of course, it narrows from there.
Measuring a dick or a dildo is like measuring a shirt or piece of clothing: precision and consistency is not as easy as one might think.
Your reviews are truly outstanding. Many thanks again.
Your review was great! Do you happen to know what hardness the outer layer has on the shore scale? A thousand thanks
Probably somewhere between 00-50 and 00-80, but it’s difficult to read how a dual-density toy in particular will feel based on one layer’s Shore rating. The core thickness and how far the core extends into the head make the situation more complicated, so my telling you an exact density won’t clearly convey how the toy feels overall (because of the core). Anything under 1A (that is, has to be rated on the 00 scale) is very soft — which the top half of the Naked Addiction’s head is.
Hi Felicity! 🙂
After going through your reviews on dildos, I really want to get this one. Since my intention is to use it exclusively for harness play (vaginal penetration), I would love to get your feedback on that, especially since She-Vibe claims that the suction cup base on this dildo is “a little flimsy for harness play and ultimately would not provide the firm support some harness users would be looking for”.
Could you comment on that? I’d really appreciate your input on this, as I hold your opinion in high regard.
If you agree with She-Vibe’s assessment, could you list the next-best alternatives for that purpose?
Thanks so much!
I don’t agree, and think it’s a very odd warning to stick on this one particular product, when they carry dozens of toys with suction cup bases that are equally slim. The Avant Ergo Mini is one that merits a warning *if* the harness-wearer is fast-fucking *and* their O-ring isn’t very supportive (i.e., it’s a stretchy O-ring in a harness that’s open in the front, where the O-rings are interchangeable rather than sewn in).
Thank you so much for reading!!!
I can’t take anything that’s too large. Do you have a recommendation for something similar that comes around the 1.4 diameter? While I can use 1.5 inches in diameter, it has me a bit stretched and isn’t as comfortable for me.
After months of browsing your reviews and reading so much about the Naked Addiction, I finally bought it and it feels so amazing, both im my hand and in actual use! ❤ However, I am slightly worried about the silicone. Overall, the toy has a fairly matte finish, but my particular specimen has a couple of spots that feel really tacky – think the stickiness of coca cola when you spill it on your hand and leave it to dry. The dildo was like that straight out of the package and still is after I washed it with warm water and soap a couple of times. Any idea why it feels that way? I have several silicone dildos and I’ve never seen any such inconsistency in the silicone finish.
I wouldn’t worry about it, it’s probably the coating which makes it feel silky and which they spray on the dildo not being everywhere. The tacky parts are the parts without the coating or with less of it, as that’s what this squishy silicone feels like without the coating (I know for sure, because I boiled mine and the coating came off and now the dildo feels very sticky when dry).
I’m so happy with this dildo, that I found out about through your website! It has such a nice squish (thicker layer than most duaI density dildo’s as far as I know) and such a nice finish. It is the ideal size and shape for oral for me. It’s firm enough to push it down my throat, yet flexible enough as well. I can feel all the tiny details with my lips and tongue. And the soft outer layer makes it more comfortable. In all orificies by the way. Very suitable for anal as well and it doesn’t retain any smell or color as far as I have experienced
I was dumb though to boil it, the coating came off. I bought a new one now and I can tell you that they made the vanilla one a tad bit darker, so it looks less pale now, but still Caucasion and not very tanned.
Such a great review Felicity! They’re so helpful 🙂
I watched a YouTube video of an unboxing of the BMS Factory Naked Addiction dildo, and the care instructions provided in the packaging said it is not dishwasher safe – do you happen to know why that is?
Also curious, have you personally boiled this toy in water to sanitize it and had no issues with it affecting the product? I can’t seem to figure out why the company would say it is not dishwasher safe, other than maybe the high-temp of the dishwasher, which is why I’m curious if it does okay when sanitized in boiling water. I’m guessing you haven’t had any issues with boiling it though since it’s of course platinum silicone and you included info on boiling it in the Care & Cleaning section of this review. Just wanted to make sure though/see if you tried it and get some clarity on the no-dishwasher-rule.
I also had a couple questions about a different dildo: the Uberrime Splendid Medium dual density dildo. I know it doesn’t technically have a suction cup base, but does it stick decently well to a smooth surface, such as a smooth wall or shower wall, and stay put relatively well when used? Which do you prefer, the Uberrime Splendid or the BMS Factory Naked Addiction? I’m stuck between these two! Ideally I would love to own both, but I can only afford one. I wish I could combine them (and maybe add the tiniest bit more girth?) and I would have the perfect dildo haha. I kinda wish the Naked Addiction had a forward curve and a more pronounced head/ridge for g-spot play like the Splendid does (BMS Factory should really take this exact Naked Addiction dildo and make a version that is geared toward g-spots/p-spots; I bet it would sell like crazy!). I also really like that Uberrime uses US sourced silicone and body-safe color pigments (I wonder what BMS Factory uses for color pigments, and whether this is a cause for concern…). But the extra length, realism, and suction cup of the Naked Addiction has me interested. The lower price is nice too.
Lastly, I’m also curious, what is your favorite of the Ubberrime dual density dildo line up? I’m wondering if I would like one that is a little longer than the splendid, and even maybe has slightly a tad bit more girth, while still great for the almighty g-spot.
Sorry for all the questions lol. Thank you so much for providing such helpful information and informing the public on body-safe materials for toys. You’re truly the best! <3
Thank you so much for reading!!!
So, the concern with putting silicone toys in the dishwasher is that dishwashers can abrade the surface of any super-soft silicone. SquarePegToys, which is premium US-made platinum, also states the same about dishwashers dulling the finish of their silicone.
The Naked Addiction Dual can be boiled for a few minutes; it’s not damaging. Though there’s really no need to boil it if one’s not switching between vaginal and anal, or sanitizing post-yeast infection or similar. Soap + water is a powerful tool, in combo with silicone’s hydrophobicity.
The smooth finish on any super-soft sil can get slightly stickier over time; also true of Vixskin dildos for sure, as dimethicone slowly exudes. So the Naked Addiction is less silky over time.
The Splendid original is the best Uberrime IMO. The Large Splendid didn’t keep the same head shape, it’s more of a ball that’s odder for my G-spot personally.