The handle makes all the difference. The Boneyard Tool Kit has absolutely the best dildo handle I’ve ever seen: It’s easy to grip and thrust, and connects at a great angle so I can suddenly:
- stand up while thrusting a dildo into my vagina,
- easily hold a clit vibrator while dildo-jerking, like 5x more easily.
Dildos with a handle also help with couple’s sex where one person wants to thrust some silicone 🍆 into the other; and are good for folks who can’t lean forward as far when they’re thrusting into their own body.
The Boneyard dildo – handle – suction cup kit (Cock 100% Silicone Tool Kit) comes with the handle attachment, a suction cup attachment, and a life-cast silicone dildo; it’s also available with an even bigger silicone dong, in the Boneyard Cock 10″ kit. These are serious toys: So how good are the dildo + attachments?
Pros & Cons
Pros
- Handle is super useful: A partner can thrust the dildo easier, it’s great for use while holding a clitoral sex toy, or if you have a bigger belly.
- Really strong suction cup.
- Can use either the handle or the suction cup in the silicone dildo.
- Body-safe, easy to clean.
- Realistic textures on the dildo.
- Medium-firm silicone dildo – doesn’t bend too much, feels erect.
Cons
- Medium-firm silicone dildo – not fleshy-soft; very textured.
- Large dildo is not for everyone. (Some like it smaller.)
- Only 1 color.
More on the size: The Boneyard Cock 8″ silicone dildo is 2 inches maximum diameter / 6.5 inches circumference (mid-shaft), and 6 inches circumference around the head where the glans widens. It’s got 7 inches insertable length.
Contents
Silicone Dildo Handle, Hooray!
OMG I can’t even remember when silicone dildo thrusting has been this easy. It’s amazing. The handle is just soooo simple to hang onto.
I start jerking the dildo, while holding a clit vibe (PalmPower Recharge is awesome for this if you like a good bit of power)…
…and so quickly, I feel like I’m almost seeing my approaching orgasm like a tidal wave. (Of pleasure.) If I keep thrusting the dildo at a consistent medium pace, it is gonna sweep over me, after building and building. Usually, 2 minutes away!
The dildo is a lil firm, which is good for G-spot pressure; but also means I have to be very specific about not wanting my partner to get too overenthusiastic when thrusting it into me. (Sloooow & steady, please!) That’s very fun, especially if you wanna go for a “bigger dick” fantasy without having to get a strap-on harness that’ll fit both him and the silicone cock. Having someone else do the work is always excellent, and I can be extra free to position, say, the We-Vibe Melt where keeping its air pulse mouth situated is more important. It’s such a powerful combo, whoa is all I can say.
Suction Cup Attachment
This suction cup is much stronger than the Vac suction cups by Doc Johnson. Those are prone to falling over when you put a big dildo on them. This thing, in contrast, sticks really well to smooth surfaces.
And it doesn’t slide around on tile.
It’s so sticky, I wish it had a pull tab, because removing it from the floor when I’m done is the difficult part! (I find myself glad that I’m not a big dildo-on-floor user, my legs get too crampy that way!!!)
Boneyard toys are cis-male targeted, so this kit was intended for anal, first. (But a dildo is a dildo is a dildo; anyone can use one with a flared base.) If using anally, you’d want to grease the dildo up—use extra-virgin coconut oil, perhaps—and the suction cup sticks really, really well to tile.
Boneyard Cock 8″ Silicone Dildo – How it feels
Lube ‘er up! The Boneyard silicone dildos are very accurate life-casts, meaning they retain the model’s every skin line. They are not smoothed out like many life-cast toys. In a medium-density silicone (≈ 7–8A Shore durometer), too, the texture is prominent. It’s a bit draggy. If you like smooth silicone, this dildo is not for you. But, if you do enjoy realistic textures to the max, then I recommend Sliquid Silk + gently rocking the Boneyard 8″ Cock.
At 7A Shore density, this kit’s dildo is significantly softer than the Tantus dildos with handle. This is a big point in favor of the Boneyard handle setup: since the Tantus dildos are poured in a straight mold, so the firmer Tantus silicone really don’t angle upward as well. (You’re still needing to lean forward to grip & thrust into your own body.) Finally, the Boneyard dildo is phallic, not abstract.
Personally, I’m fairly sensitive to texture, but do like toys that are not 100% smooth because that feels unnatural to me (a lover of realism). So, when we’re well-lubed, I can totally enjoy the Boneyard dildo as long as I’m not thrusting it at high speed. Shorter, medium-fast strokes feel really good against my G-spot. This 8″ dildo does have a noticeable ridge and curves forward: qualities a G-spot dildo must have! And, I like how it expands mid-shaft (becoming half an inch wider around), so I’m getting extra thickness at my vaginal opening.
Other Dildos the Handle Fits
The Boneyard Grip Lock handle does fit into Vac-u-Holed dildos OK, but not perfectly. The Silicone Tool Kit’s attachment nubs are the right width, just shorter than a Vac-style attachment prong.
So, if you’ve got a soft silicone dildo with Vac hole, like is popular with Mr. Hankey’s Toys or the SquarePeg realistic seen above: This will fit, but then you have an inch of open space inside the dildo. That’ll make it a tad more flexible. For example: I like the Steve with SquarePegHole on the Boneyard handle a lot, but it’s only really good when I’m lying down flat—not when I’m standing up—because too much pressure against the upper shaft = less-pressure from Steve’s G-spotting ridge.
How to Attach
The attachment process is super-simple: You really just have to stick the two circular rings into the hole in the dildo’s base. IMO it’s less trouble than Vac-U-Lock attachment insertion and removal — the Boneyard attachments pull out easier.
With Vac toys, you usually want to use a little lube inside the hole, but if you use too much, then the dildo will spin in circles. So, getting the right balance can be frustrating. The Silicone Tool Kit’s handle has not required lubricant for me. And, I don’t see any small tears forming around the dildo hole like commonly happens with super-soft silicone dildos with hole when you pull an attachment out too hard. This Boneyard set-up is well-designed to be stable over time.
Care & Cleaning
It’s best to remove the attachment when cleaning. Other than that, the Boneyard 100% Silicone Tool kit has no hidden instructions for cleaning. Really, just wash the silicone dildo with soap and water. Before and after use! Here are ways to sanitize if you want to deep-clean.
Recap & Ranking
I’ve really liked how hard I can come on this kit along with a clit vibrator. Usually, I just don’t use silicone dildos during dual (clit) stimulation (because it’s awkward to do both at once!); or else, I have to pull out my ($500) sex machine. So this is a cheaper option, for sure.
I would strongly recommend this handle to anyone who has trouble thrusting their dildo while clit-vibrating, or who wants to thrust into their partner with better grip.
But, for the Boneyard 100% Silicone Tool Kit to work, you gotta be comfortable with bigger dildos. The 8″ Cock is thick at 2 inches max. diameter. (And 7 inches insertable length, though you do not have to take the full length if you don’t want to!) Also be ready for texture, since this silicone dildo’s got a ton of skin lines!!! Overall I’d give it 4.25 / 5 stars, since the attachments are clever, the handle is fabulous, and the dildo is good but a tad over-textured.
Find the Boneyard Cock Kit w/ handle & suction cup here.
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