CalExotics Connect Kegel Exerciser Vibrator review (vs. Lush 3)

It’s a love egg vibrator, called a kegel exerciser. The CalExotics Connect Kegel Exerciser’s medium-strong vibration is decently rumbly, for half Lovense Lush’s price. How’s it perform as a discreet, wearable vibrator?

Pros & Cons

Pros

• Leave-in G-spot vibrator.
• Wearable outside the house.
• Smooth, comfortable silicone.
• App control: Switch between 9 vibration functions via your phone.
• Waterproof submersible.
• Body-safe.
• Cheaper vs. other app controlled G-spot vibrators.
• App maintains Bluetooth connection.

Cons

• Less-adjustable app control.
• For sensual play and teasing, not orgasms.

The Connect Kegel Exerciser is made of nonporous silicone. It’s 5.75″ total length in its natural arc shape, has a 1.3″ diameter × 2.0″ long “love egg” bulb, and its tail extends 4.2″ when straightened out. It vibrates against the G-spot, as its tail remains outside, vibrating under the clitoris. It’s IPX7 waterproof, and is plug-in USB rechargeable.

My Review Criteria

All body-safe, zero BS. I only recommend body-safe toys, no bullshit and no paid promos. If I wouldn’t give a toy to a close friend, then I won’t recommend it to you, either. I’ve tested over 1,080 vibrators, 530 dildos, and 165 butt plugs (and a plethora of cock rings,, kink gear, and lubes!). Everyone’s preferences vary, so I rate vibrating toys by 1. power level and 2. rumbliness; and always describe how my personal tastes color my experience.

My Experience

Vs. Lovense Lush

I really enjoy the silicone feel here, in the CalExotics Connect Kegel Exerciser. It’s a thicker layer of very smooth silicone. A smooth bulb, with 3 gently raised ripples. This is a massive improvement for me over Lovense Lush‘s hard-beaked pointy bulb, which feels harsher against my sensitive front vaginal wall (& G-spot area).

I’m a fan of how the Kegel Exerciser’s vibration is not high-pitched. It starts out rumbly, on vibration function #1. And it’s not buzzy on high-speed. It’s 10 Hertz lower-frequency vs. Lovense Lush 3, in fact.

Wearing the Connect Kegel Exerciser

It inserts smoothly: You get the “love egg” bulb inside the vagina, about 3 inches in. Then, the lavender tail emerges outside. It rests underneath the clitoris, and ends near the pubic mound.

The control button is at the end of the tail, so it sticks out and you can find it easily, if you want to turn it off fast. (It’s not hidden up inside the vagina, harder to access.)

For me, the Connect Kegel Exerciser is a fun wearable vibrator for pleasure. Not pelvic floor health. You could do kegel clenches around it, but it’s really not a vaginal strengthening product. (You truly don’t need a toy for that: you can do Kegels with no balls, weights, etc. Just do 3–5 sets of 10 repeat PC muscle contractions, gradually lengthening how long you clench, every other day for 4–6 weeks.)

My favorite vibration functions are #2 (tops), and #9 sometimes for a change of pace.

The Kegel Exerciser is comfortable to wear. The padded silicone helps. (Use with water-based lubricant if needed, for smoother insertion.) My vagina has a habit of pushing all love egg vibrators out as I walk, so I need “support shorts” to successfully wear it outside my home. (The only g-spot stimulation vaginal vibrator I can wear without extra support—less slippage!—is the Beat Magic Tickler.)

I’ve worn it most at home, while I’m doing work or cleaning or lying back and relaxing in bed, before sleep. The Connect Exerciser’s vibration is calming. Fun, most of all. Like most insertable leave-in vibrators, it’s stimulating and feels good—but is not intended to give you mega-orgasms (unless you’re super-duper sensitive to vaginal vibration).

The volume is low: from 27 (almost inaudible) to 34 decibels during vaginal wear. Definitely discreet enough to feel silent unless you’re in the quietest library.

LoveSpouse app with Connect Kegel Exerciser

The Connect Kegel Exerciser’s app works OK. It’s not a marvel of app and user experience. Connecting the vibrator is easy enough as long as you find the product number—device code 5203—in the booklet inside the product packaging.

Navigating through the vibration options could be clearer. Biggest con: there’s no way to adjust the intensity level of any particular vibration function. Instead, it works just like a handheld remote control: You have preset functions, and you can move between them.

You can create custom rhythms through the Draw Something option, then save them and replay them later—you just can’t use any other apps on your phone when replaying those remembered rhythms. (You can switch to other apps on your phone, or let your phone screen go dark, if you’re using the 9 preset vibration functions.)

“Interactive Mode” is how you can connect long-distance (or in person) to your partner’s phone. Then, they can choose any of the 9 vibration functions (like in a remote control), or they can do “draw something” to move their finger over the screen in patterns of escalation and deescalation, controlling you; or saving the rhythm and sending it to you. Not as fun as my most exciting “venturing out with vibrator” time, but again, it’s decent.

Vibration Functions and Strength

The Connect Kegel Exerciser has 9 vibration functions built-in: 3 steady speeds + 6 rhythms.

They run medium-strong vs. the wide world of body-safe vibrators (where certain wand massagers & air pulse “suction” toys are most powerful). I’d rate the CalExotics Connect love egg a 6.5 out of 10 maximum intensity.

How to Use

How to Control

To turn on the CalExotics Connect Kegel Exerciser, hold down the power button for 3 full seconds. It will light up.

Then, press the power button again to start the vibration. Keep pushing to cycle through the remaining 8 functions after that.

Or, pair to the Love Spouse app to move through the 9 vibration functions remotely.

How to Position

If you’re not wet vaginally, do use a few drops of quality water-based lubricant on the Kegel Exerciser vibrator’s bulb, before trying to insert it. I recommend Sliquid H2O for safety.

Hold the toy’s “tail” right under the bulb: You want to be looking at the ripply lines as you insert it. Begin gently pushing it into your vagina.

If entry is difficult, then warm up by stimulating yourself clitorally first.

Finally, the bulb should be fully inside the vagina, with the tail curving around toward your bellybutton.

Care & Cleaning

IPX7 Waterproof! The Connect Kegel Exerciser’s silicone + ABS plastic body can be submerged in the bath.

To clean, just use your normal handsoap, scrubbing this bluetooth vibrator under running water from your sink.

It’s USB rechargeable. The charging prong inserts at the very end of the Kegel Exerciser’s tail. Look for a small circular indent in the silicone, with the letters DC real small under it, and poke the prong firmly into the silicone there.

Recap & Rating

The Connect Kegel vibrator is for teasing and subtle pleasure, as it rests secretly inside the vagina.

Its rumbly to medium-strong vibration is good. It’s not as strong as Lovense Lush, but it’s half the price and stimulates me just as well—actually, the silicone feels smoother, softer and more pleasant to me in the Kegel pleasure vibrator.

Its LoveSpouse app control is not the most customizable, but it stays connected to the vibrator well—no lost Bluetooth connection. Expect it to be like a remote control, except integrated into your phone so you can change between its 9 functions that way. 📲

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Feature	Rating (out of 5)
Fun per dollar value: Great for the price. Smooth, padded silicone is more comfortable vs. other love eggs. App does sync easily enough. Teasing stimulation while you wear it around. For arousal, not G-spot orgasms.	4.0
User experience/ Ease of use: Good wearable G-spot vibrating shape. Vibration is pleasantly not-buzzy (from rumbly to medium pitch). Medium-strong. Sync to app using code inside booklet in box. Stays paired via Bluetooth, no disconnections for us. Linking to a partner is 7/10 easy. Figuring out where to customize vibration apps is harder in-app. Easiest to use app as a remote control (that’s easier to keep without losing).	4.0
Luxury feel: Body-safe, smooth silicone; Clean packaging; USB rechargeable; Waterproof submersible	4.5
Run time (42–60mins.) & easy charging	2.75
Total	3.8 of 5 ⭐s
Vibration power, low-to-high intensity [vs. all vibrators]	From 5.25 to 6.5 /out of 10
Vibration depth (“rumble”), low-to-high	From 9.5 to 6.1 /out of 10
Volume (decibels)	27 to 34 dB worn vaginally

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