The more I learn about human sexuality, the more I see that nothing is weird. Atypical, maybe, but who wants to be normal in every way? Nipple orgasms, flaccid or dry penile orgasms, dream orgasms, electro-stim orgasms, minutes-long waves of multiple orgasms, orgasms without any…
2017 was a big year for me—some really unfortunate things happened, that’s for sure, but I also started this blog. During my almost eight months of sex blogging, you wouldn’t believe how much I’ve learned about new toys. (And yup, how many orgasms I’ve had…
A few days ago, I found myself lying on the bathroom floor, collapsed in a heap, with a huge robot dildo in my hand. As I rocked back and forth, grinning while recovering from the strong aftershocks of a few deep orgasms, I realized how…
So you’ve bought a suction cup dildo. Now you want to know: Where do you stick one of these toys? How do you use a suction cup dildo comfortably? Finding the right suction cup dildo position can be a real challenge (especially if you’re not…
If you’ve read a single post on my site, you already know more about sex toys than I did when I started buying them about five years ago. If you’re here, you must be interested in silicone—the only body-safe sex toy material that can also be…
Fantasy sex toys make up a big (and growing) market. More and more fantasy toy makers pop up every year, all offering non-humanoid dildos (and some penetrables) for people who either aren’t attracted to human-shaped toys or who just want to add something really kinky—or…
I love writing about sex toys—have no doubt about that. But though this blog is my passion, my main work is as a freelance copy editor. I take books and (hopefully) make them more readable. These editing jobs are often long and tedious, especially when…
I’d been with my husband for five years before I managed to get him off via a handjob. When I had my first few sexual encounters, I was still filled with all kinds of sex-negative and body-negative hangups, and I wasn’t quite sure how to…
