Best Blowjob Dildo + 6 Tips on Dildos for Oral Practice Guide

You gotta wanna lick it, tongue it, stroke & suck on it?!🙌 Dildos for blowjob practice are getting better. I’m a fan of dishing out devoted BJs – but now, separated from a partner who didn’t enjoy cocksucking to begin with, I’m testing out my lifelike dildo picks for oral fixation!

When seeking the best blowjob dildo, you definitely want to avoid PVC dildos and TPE dildos that’ll crack and collect germs over time.¹ Many sex toys are still unsafe for internal use!

All dildos I’ve selected, next⬇️, are nonporous silicone, which repels both water and microbes (=bacteria & yeast) on a deeper level. ❌💧🦠❌

Why Get a Blowjob dildo? Purposes!

Dildo blowjobs can satisfy three different goals:

1. Solo fun, just because you like having your mouth around a penis or oral sex toy.
2. Enhance your oral skills, so you’ll give better head to a partner. Especially helpful if your partner’s penis is long; then, a good dildo to deepthroat is for training to tame your gag flex!
3. Realistic BJ dildos for visual effect = to show off. The Solina Mega XL dildo here is bigger than I need orally, for example, but looks 🔥 when I’ve sent a pic/vid to my S.O.!

My BEST Blowjob Dildos Recap

Can you believe I’ve owned and tried out over 700 dildos now? (It’s been one helluva decade.) Body-safe silicone dildos have majorly improved, even in the last 2 years. Do remember they are still synthetic, not exactly like skin + erect muscle fibers; but dual-density silicone is the closest for erection-esque effect.

My top choices for a fun +safe dildo for oral sex are:

1. Solina Prima: Easiest practice size. Ultra-realistic dildo with just enough length to match average size. Median erection length is 5.44 inches, and I start to get throat-teasing from anything 4.25 inches and up!!! The skin texture is awesome-realistic.
2. Solina Mega Large: More length without too much girth. Slimmer = easier as you practice going deeper. For me, the Mega dildo is fun for tongue play around the realistic skin textures, running your tongue in circles around Solina Mega’s head + retracted skin below. At 6.75″ shaft length, the Mega Large is longer than 98% of human erections. Since I’m into overall realness, not throat play, I get to grip the lower shaft and work on stroking while you’re sucking & tongue-ing up top: (See dildo sucking blowjob techniques, next).
3. Solina Maxima: Fatter cock head to suck around. You might’ve noticed a trend: that I think the Solina dual-density platinum silicone dildos r the most lifelike – as close as you can find to lifelike in a polymer that repels bacteria. In particular, the Maxima slays if you wanna run ur tongue around a bolder silicone head, while gripping its squeezable silicone balls. 👍👍
4. Super-depth, nonrealistic dildos. If you’re doing for the true depth – which is a serious training exercise, bless us – then SquarePegToys’ super-soft silicone “The Slim” line are widely regarded as the best. Personally my hard limit is 6.5″ insertable, so I’ve most often gone with their Thumbdrive plug (S3) as a throat-trainer. The very soft silicone bends better into the esophagus, less resistance.

🤔Dildo Choice Tip: You might (honestly) measure your partner’s full erect length *if* you’re practicing on a dildo in order to please them better. It depends on your goals: instead, you might want to try a thicker or longer dildo to either gain more skills, or for pure fun.

6 Tips for Oral Sex Practice on a Dildo

My top tips for not just basic, but bangin’ blowjobs. First, though: You gotta want it. From sucking strategically, slowly to sloppily; to summing up the job. Enthusiasm is essential.

1. Warm it up. Preheating your soft-silicone realistic dildo makes it as lifelike as possible – so the toy is not cooler room temperature, but comfortably warm b4 you put your mouth around it. You can run under hottish-warm water (grip the suction cup base with your hand to the side, to avoid hot-hot), or boil a safe silicone dildo at a low temp. for a minute.² Of course BE 100% SURE it’s not too hot (so it won’t burn you!) prior to taking the dildo in.
2. Positioning for Dildo Blowjobs. You want to be in control, at a relaxed angle, and not in an awkward position: So, for example, leaning backward trying to suck a dildo on a shower wall is neither comfortable nor super-safe (if the floor is wet!). Better positions: A.) Leaning over a dildo mount that’s elevated over several pillows – most like sucking the cock of someone standing up, except your knees are more comfy on the soft bed. B.) Kneeling in front of a door, suction dildo mounted on it, can work OK if your dildo is longer (7-inches+). This is for glans+upper-shaft length stimulation (4-inches length), since leaning your head backward blocks deepthroat access.



3. Grip ‘n’ Lick. This should include tonguing the penis (dildo) head & frenulum behind. To keep the dildo more stable and control its position, you can also:
4. Stroke or (lightly) Ch0ke the Lower Shaft. Stroking + head-sucking is like BJ dual stimulation: you’re pleasing two different ways, which often makes a combo that’s more easily orgasmic.



5. Faster Is *Not* Always Better. Great BJ technique implies a certain finesse, where you’re actively controlling the tongue, cheeks, and throat – rather than simply going fast with sucking. Tongue play around a glans & frenulum are massive turn-ons, for example. Some guys do like fast oral f*cking (=big back-and-forth head movement) or fast lower-shaft stroking in combo with glans-sucking as a finale. But the latter works best when you’ve teased, played, discovered their fave spots and led up to the stroke-sucking finale.
6. Tame the Gag (Reflex). When stuff touches the back of your throat, your innate reflex is to gag or choke. This is a survival instinct, since gagging can help expel trapped food blocking your airway. So, you gotta learn to actively surpress the reflex when you’re in a safe situation wanting cock at the back of ur throat. Practice is the key here. But, deepthroating dildos is not essential: you can enjoy BJ play and oral dildo usage if you’ve got a shorter mouth, too – just focus on the upper shaft, head, and frenulum + use your hands for best results!

Dildo for Oral vs. Human Partner BJs

The big difference between dildos & human peens, of course, is that penises are attached to humans who 1.) have preferences and 2.) can provide feedback & communicate.

Dildo training for blowjobs & deepthroating is an awesome practice step. But when doing it on a live person, make sure you’re listening for their responses! Some people with penises prefer harder grip vs. lighter stroking, or prefer stimulation over the frenulum vs. lower-shaft choking👌 vs. head tonguing👅.

The more they’re able to communicate what they like – whether that’s via words, or groans & moans – the better you can respond and tailor your performance to pleasure.

💡Better communication improves BJs between two people, but also any sex together. We all have different sex styles, and feeling free to explore and talk about tastes is tremendously important.

Of course, using a dildo only has huge advantages like:

1. No pain incurred. You can use your teeth. You can bite a dildo without hurting, and you can squeeze its balls as hard as you want.
2. You can do it whenever you want. After you buy a dildo, it’s always available – on your timeline.
3. Plus, no risk of picking up bad bacteria, yeast, or viruses (HPV, which can be either cancer-causing or wart-causing; and herpes are both super-common) from a new partner’s penis! Every living human penis will retain germs, and carries a microbiome that may be populated by either commensal or pathogenic & inflammatory (=irritating once inside a partner’s vagina) bacteria.

Deep-Throat Training

Now you’ve read up on how to give a blowjob to your dildo, here’s more on how to subdue the gag reflex:

Practice, practice, practice is really the only honest advice. You only get better by doing it, over time.

“Deep throat” can mean anything from 5 inches depth to 20-something inches – at which point, you’re way down into the esophagus. I start hitting the back of my throat at 4.6 inches in, and 5-inch cocks are the longest I like to insert fully for fun. Some people like deepthroat play, while others find it unnecessary.👋 I get better results from focusing on the head and upper shaft, while gripping the bottom of the penis over the scrotum.

I’ve seen recs for learning to surpress gag reflex via a toothbrush, which seems logical – but for me, the toothbrush is too small and I don’t give a sh*t about pleasing a toothbrush, so I just kept gagging upon inserting one deeper. No impetus to succeed, does the toothbrush provide.

A few times I have managed a 6″ cock, I learned the key was:

1. Breath through your nose intermittently,
2. while being in control of the angle and speed of deeper-throat dildo BJs.
3. Don’t focus solely on the dildo – instead, perhaps, picture a hot person mentally and doing it to them.

Benzocaine numbing agents are not recommended for either throat play, or anal play. Numbed sensation = less responsiveness, correlating with a higher risk for anal tearing in particular. Fissures are small tears you want to avoid if at all possible.

Oral Sex Lubricants??

You do not need lubricants for oral sex, unless you have a naturally dry mouth or are on medications that cause dryness.

Just be hydrated (make sure you’ve drunk enough water that day: at least a couple glasses of pure water, not just soda or caffeinated beverages). Your mouth will produce saliva when it’s entered. And if a phallus is impacting the back of your throat, you’ll have a lot of natural lubricant, quickly.

But, some folks choose to use flavored lubricants. I’m not saying you’re wrong if you do, it’s just not my style.

My rationale: First, fake-fruit flavors and artificial sweeteners are vaguely chemical, don’t taste like real food, and they leave a strange synthetic aftertaste. Second, the fake flavoring separates me from the live action of real cock in the mouth. (Now, the penis should be washed with water beforehand, especially if the owner’s taken a piss lately. That’s just polite.) To me, flavoring lessens the authenticity of cock-sucking; makes it taste strange, which is distracting. Basically, I’m all about realism to the max.

Sex lubricants are largely meant for vaginal usage, which means they’re meant to be inside the body, so swallowing an ounce of lube is fine. Any lube.

The human stomach is better able to withstand the introduction of diverse foodstuffs, including sugars and fiber, plus the stomach is more acidic than any vagina. So, I would say even glycerin-containing lubes are OK for oral – whereas I recommend against glycerin sex lubes for vaginal use, for safety reasons.

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NOTES

1. If you choose a quote “real feel” thermoplastic dildo, you should change it out like a toothbrush, disposing of it after 3–6 months.
2. Like where bubbles are just starting to rise in a pot of water, but it’s not boiling hard. Boiling at a full boil will not damage a good dildo, you’ll just have to wait longer post-boil to insert the dildo orally.