Best Penis Vibrators, Cock Rings, & Best Fleshlight: Male Sex Toys Guide pt. 1

Penis toys do more. Tired of using your hand for jacking off and want to explore penis vibrators or find a terrific new masturbator? Or maybe you want to find the perfect cock ring or a good lube to use during sex. Whether you’ve never bought a sex toy before, or you’re looking to expand your collection, I’m excited to offer this top male sex toys guide (pt. 1) to Phallophile Reviews. I’ll discuss and give mini-reviews of penis toys I’ve enjoyed for solo and partner play.

I’ve selected items for all experience levels and budgets, so there’s pleasure to be had by anyone. Just remember that products sold on Amazon are often counterfeit or made of unsafe materials: so I’ll link to quality, discreet toy sellers here.

From the best Fleshlights and male masturbators, cock rings of all types, to penis pumps for making it bigger—and lubes for more comfort. And last, I’ll discuss nipple play toys: they’re not just for women. —Guide by AllMaleSexToys.com

Penis Vibrators

Perhaps your penis needs a little vibration in its life. Strokers (next section) are fun, but they can be heavy, sometimes messy, and require more work on the user’s part. Vibrators, on the other hand, can be kept within easy reach and applied to your cock’s sweet spot(s) for targeted stimulation that can bring you to an intense climax.

Maximum Bullet vibrator — A great way to find if you enjoy vibrations on the head of your cock. Penis head vibrators aren’t my favorite in general, but this silicone loop-vibrator is smart. Intense orgasms have been had for years by strapping bullets to the underside of cocks with rubber bands, hair ties, and other interesting implements. Now you can enjoy the same effects with everything you need in a softer strap. The Max. Bullet’s soft silicone ring acts as a cock ring, securing the vibrator’s cutout tip against the frenulum: on the reverse side of the coronal ridge. Or, flip it around to fasten under your penis’ head: Not only can your glans get a workout, but you may enjoy some delightful frenulum massage as well. Try pushing its smooth tip inward, too, if you find you like firm pressure against the frenulum or over your urethral slit.

AirTurn 2 suction masturbator: A sucking blowjob toy, with fully silicone interior. This means you can cum in it and roll over, fall asleep even, and deal with it the next day. No problem because silicone repels bacteria and fungi. The Airturn’s cup is pliable silicone, that opens and closes over your glans penis; it has full penetrable depth of 4.5″, for stroking up and down the shaft. My favorite part of this toy? Unloading inside the cup while it’s running. Feels great, and doesn’t make a huge mess. Water-resistant, too, so use it to work out a load in the shower.

Magic Wand by Vibratex/Hitachi — The Magic Wand is well-known as a “women’s” toy, but it’s excellent for penises too. With its vibrating head, you can tease your cock (or someone else’s) just the way you want it. The tube sites are loaded with videos of cocks being teased to release with wand massagers, so go take a look if you need some masturbation inspiration. While the rumbling head itself can make many cocks explode, you can find optional penis stroker attachments that are a lot of fun, like the Hummingbird attachment. Or: The new Mini Magic Wand is 5″ shorter, and easier to angle just the way you want it.

Fun Factory Manta: For rumbling vibration during BJs. Add a little lube inside the Manta’s silicone wings, and slide it up and down your shaft, holding them exactly where it feels good. The back of the lower shaft, right above the balls, is where I’d try first. This men’s vibrator works well for anyone, and is fun to use with a sex partner. Once you’ve had your cock sucked while your shaft is being rumbled by the Manta, you’ll find it hard to keep it hidden away. Whether you use it for foreplay, sex, or solo masturbation, this vibrator could end up being one of your all-time favorites. If I had to pick one favorite penis vibrator, I think this would be it!

Best Fleshlight & More: Masturbation Sleeves

Fleshlights are the most popular and well-known cock strokers / male masturbation sleeves. Most Fleshlights are made up of two pieces: a pliable sleeve that includes an orifice and a deep textured tunnel, and a hard case that holds the sleeve.

So, which is the best Fleshlight? After 20+ years, Fleshlight has quite a few options available and is adding more products all the time. Let’s take a look at some favorites:

Fleshlight Ice — Among the top-selling Fleshlights, the Ice Models are at the top of my list. The hard case holds a squishy textured sleeve. Both the case and sleeve are clear, which means you’ll be able to see your cock as it slides in and out. Available orifices include Butt, Lady (pussy), and Pure (just an unadorned hole). Internal textures vary, so visit each product separately to see detailed images of the insides.

Fleshlight Quickshot — These are short (under 5”) Fleshlights that are open on either end, so if your cock is long enough, you can enter one side and pop out the other. Perfect for those who want some texture, but don’t want to be trapped inside a snug channel. Easy to lube and way easier to clean up when you’re done, you can even connect two Quickshots with the Quick Connect and have an instant double-ended stroker that’s double the length. Do you really like your Quickshot? Be sure to take a look at Fleshlight’s newest innovation: the Quickshot Launch. This device holds your Quickshot and works it up and down at whatever speed you desire. Just hold on and let it stroke you. Bonus points for the phone holster, so you can watch videos, look at your favorite photos, or have a hot chat session while using your hands-free stroker.

Build Your Own Fleshlight — Probably the easiest way to get exactly what you want. Choose a hard case, select your orifice (Lady or Butt), and one of a half dozen textures, from rigid and bumpy (Destroya) to gentler (Mini-Lotus) to tight and sleek (“Super Tight” Fleshlight interior).

Fleshlight Girls — Prefer something ultra-realistic? With several to choose from, Fleshlights from the Girls line have orifices molded directly from real vulvas and butts. Most of the textures are of the rippled/bumpy variety. The most popular Girls all-time are Riley Reid, Stoya, and Mia Malkova.

Fleshlight Boys — Prefer a sleeve molded from a male pornstar? Browse the orifices (mostly butts) of gay porn stars (Fleshlight Boys) and straight stars (Fleshlight Guys). Not only can you have a realistic ass to fuck, but their erect cocks have been molded and cast into silicone dildos. Fleshlight is one of the few companies (along with Hankey’s Toys) that makes body-safe silicone porn star cocks.

Other noteworthy Fleshlight products to consider:

• Stamina Training Unit — Specially designed Fleshlights (in Lady and Butt) to replicate the sensations of sex, these best-selling strokers help you train to last longer during partner sex.
• Fleshskins — This is a handheld sleeve-only toy for those seeking a textured handjob. Grip and squeeze with your fingers for a sensual stroke session. Pop the head of your cock through the other end for some intense glans stimulation, and even stretch the Fleshskins over your nuts to tease your balls at the same time.
• Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer — Nothing beats sliding into a warm tunnel. You can warm your Fleshlight sleeves under the tap with hot water, but if it’s heat you desire, why not try the Sleeve Warmer? Just ease the heated prong into the Fleshlight’s insides and you’ll be sliding into delicious warmth in no time. Doubles as a drying stand.
• Shower Mount — Want to use your favorite Fleshlights in the shower? Attach this device to the shower wall and enjoy hands-free fun under the spray. Be sure to get the Quickshot Shower Mount Adapter if you prefer to use the smaller Fleshlight strokers in the shower.

So how to use a Fleshlight? It’s simple:

• Lubricate the orifice and the fuckable interior first. A water-based lubricant is needed for these types of products. You can always pick up Fleshlight’s own FleshLube, which is available in the original formula; or skip to the full water-based lube list below.
• Slide right in. Give it a few strokes.
• Find the right pressure. For full-sized Fleshlights, twist the screw cap on bottom for a looser fit: or tighten for more suction. Remove the cap completely for easier cleaning when you’re done. (See how-to clean a Fleshlight tips next—that’s a little more complicated.)

How to Clean a Fleshlight

Fleshlights are made of a proprietary TPE/TPR blend, which is nontoxic but porous. That means Fleshlights will require more care than silicone products: they need to be cleaned right after use and dried to avoid mildew. Quick tips:

Tenga Masturbators

Fleshlight seems to have phased out their mouth orifice strokers, and maybe that’s because Tenga has cornered the market on textured masturbators that semi-decently replicate oral sex. You’re going to want to check these out!

Tenga Flip Hole Zero — Available in two textures (white is softer, black is firmer), the Flip Hole Zero is the next generation in oral simulators, greatly redesigned from their already-popular Flip Holes. Crack the hinged case open and marvel at the variety of textured channels and pockets as you apply your favorite water-based lube. Lock the sleeve, grease up your cock, and slide into heaven. The Zeros have a highly squeezable exterior, so you can add more pressure right where you want it, while stroking up and down. Massage the head or clench the root of your shaft. Enjoy unloading inside? The Flip Hole Zeros are so easy to clean out, even if you give them an internal cumshot. When finished, split the toy open, wash with warm soap and water, and allow to dry while the toy is balanced on the hard case, which converts into its own drying rack.

Tenga Eggs — If you’re just looking for an inexpensive textured stroker, start with Tenga’s Egg collection. Available in both soft-and hard-boiled editions (the hard is made with a firmer material), the Eggs each sport a hollow core lined with its own unique internal texture. Highly stretchable, simply slide your lubed dick into the opening at the bottom of the pocket and stretch it around your erection. These work nicely for semi-erect and flaccid penises, too, and can be enjoyed by cocks of all sizes. Pick them up in individual Eggs to experience the texture you desire, or grab the 6-packs if you want to experience all of the textures. Easy to massage just the spot you want, and the design works well to collect your semen if you enjoy ejaculating inside the cups. Washing them out thoroughly and letting them dry completely after each use will extend the lifespan of these little strokers. Pick up some extras, because they’re small enough to toss in a bag or suitcase for travel masturbation.

Best Cock Rings & Vibrating Cock Rings

As you may have guessed, a cock ring is a ring that fits around your penis (and maybe balls too). Some cock rings are vibrating, some aren’t; but all have multiple functions. So what does a cock ring do?

1. Some use them to get hard, or stay hard.
2. Other users like the way a penis ring makes the cock grow thicker.
3. For me, all of these are true, plus my dick has an increased sensitivity when I wear a cock ring, so I typically put one on for both masturbation and sex.
4. If your partner has a clitoris, then a powerful vibrating cock ring can help her/them orgasm as well.
5. Cock rings worn underneath the ball sack stimulate the pressure point there, at the root of the penis, which is a uniquely pleasurable feeling.

I consider there to be three basic types of basic cock rings: stretchy, adjustable, and solid. Plus vibrating ones! Let’s take a look at some of each, including a few “multi-function” cock rings you might enjoy.

Stretchy Cock Rings

Stretchy cock rings are one solid piece and made of some type of material that allows the wearer to stretch the ring for easier on and off action. This is typically the type I use because I can get them on fairly easily, they tend to have a snug fit once they’re on, and I can remove them in a hurry if things start to feel too tight or uncomfortable. The main thing to remember about cock rings is you should never keep one on too long. If your ring starts to feel uncomfortable, remove it immediately and give your dick and balls a break.

Tantus Super Soft C-Ring — Let’s start off with my all-time favorite cock ring. It’s made of silicone and stretches easily to slide your cock and balls through the opening. It’s not a huge ring, but it’s larger than a lot of the inexpensive rings made of cheap materials which can easily break or tear. Being silicone, it’s skin-friendly and odor-free. It feels tight, but pretty comfortable, and I can (and do) pull it off when it starts to irritate me. I’ve had my Tantus ring for nearly 10 years and it looks just as new as it did the day I first wore it. Considering that it costs less than 10 bucks, this is the cock ring I always recommend to first-timers.

Perfect Fit Xact Fit Cock Rings — Perhaps a “one size” ring isn’t what you’re looking for, especially if your cock and balls are larger or smaller than the average size ( ≈ 4.55″ circumference/1.45″ diameter) dick that most C-rings are designed for. Perfect Fit sells over a dozen different sizes, so you can see which ones work the best for your size—without spending a lot of money. These work well for those who want to wear multiple rings at once and need different sizes.👇 Xact-Fit rings are silicone and have a slight amount of stretch to get them on/off, but help maintain a firm grip once you’ve got the ring on.

Oxballs Cock-T Cock Ring — Sometimes it’s fun to put on a chunkier cock ring. These thick silicone rings from Oxballs have a beautiful fit and really stand out when you’re wearing one. The thicker band gives a snug grip and can even help to thrust your balls forward for a bigger bulge. Want even more ball fun? Pair the Cock-T with the Balls-T Ball Stretcher. Available in the same colors, you can add a thick 1.1” nut stretcher and wear both. Sexy and functional at the same time.

Adjustable Cock Rings

Adjustable rings are great for first-time cock ring wearers because they are fairly easy to put on, very easy to remove, and can be adjusted tighter or looser depending on how snug you want your ring.

Blush Stay Hard Loop Cock Rings — Just looking for something basic, inexpensive, and totally adjustable? Wrap this silicone string around the top of your cock and tighten (or loosen) it with two fasteners that slide up and down for easy adjustment and strap removal. This “lasso style” penis ring is a decent choice for someone who wants an adjustable cock ring but doesn’t want to mess with metal snaps.

Solid Cock Rings

I don’t wear these myself and I am always hesitant to recommend a solid ring, but I know a lot of people like them. They certainly look nice and you can’t deny they’re a good—well—solid fit. The drawback to these rings are the ring size is fixed, so if you measure incorrectly or order the wrong size, you won’t be able to get it on and off easily, or your cock may swell up enough once it’s on to make it very difficult—if not impossible—to remove.

Tantus Advanced C-Ring — This one’s made of silicone, so you might not consider it a solid ring, but I do. The Tantus Advanced C-Ring is nearly impossible to stretch, so it has to be put on the same way you would a metal ring: pull your flaccid cock through first and pop your balls through one at a time. The benefit to this solid ring is that you can remove it on your own (carefully!) if you are unable to work your way back out of it. Like the softer Tantus C-Ring I mentioned above, this thing will last forever.

Vibrating Cock Rings

A vibrating cock ring is a cool way to add a little more sensation during masturbation and sex, for both the person wearing it and their partner. Here are a couple penis ring vibrators to try:

Lux Active Triad — The vibe on this cock ring is a real powerhouse! Depending on how you wear it, it can stimulate your partner’s clitoris or buzz the back of your own balls. It’s fully rechargeable, so this isn’t one of those cheap vibrating rings where you have to fumble with watch batteries to make it sputter to life. This super-stretchy ring will fit all penis sizes, and is for securing the vibrator, not for harder erections!

Screaming O Apex Tux and Primo Tux — This duo—while not as luxurious as the Atom vibrating rings—can still bring you and your partner some buzzy thrills. The vibe on the Apex Tux is more vertical, so it can either hang down and tickle the back of your balls, or twist it around and have your partner use the textured surface as a clit teaser. The Primo Tux is similar, however the little bullet is tucked sideways into a horizontal sleeve, giving it the look of an actual ring. The same thing applies, though; twist it to your desired position, depending on which body part you wish to stimulate.

Best Penis Pumps

Whether you are trying to obtain regular gains or just want to see what it feels (and looks) like to enlarge your penis, a penis pump can be a fun thing to add to your sex toy collection.

Volume penis pump — I’d definitely recommend the Lux Volume pumps to someone who wants to try pumping but doesn’t want to shell out a ton of money on a higher-end package. This is a good start, electronic, to see if you enjoy the greater engorgement and hardness that pumping can bring. Made for most penis sizes (will not fit XL or small).

Bathmate Hydro, Hydromax and Hydroxtreme — As the “hydro” names suggest, this is a penis pump you can take into the bath or shower. In fact, you fill the pump chamber with water before you start, which helps cushion your cock and make for a longer, more comfortable pumping session. Measure yourself carefully before ordering, because there are different size pump cylinders. The Hydromax pumps work by pressing the seal flat against your body and using the bellows to expel excess water from inside, creating a vacuum which gradually increases your dick size. Like the Bathmate pumps but prefer a traditional squeeze pump? Check out the Hydroextreme for the models that include a hand pump as well as the bellows: Every Hydroxtreme’s hand-pump is much easier to control your pressure with.

Lubes for Penis Play

For sex, for masturbation, and—especially—sex toys, a ready supply of lubricant should be a staple in your collection. There are several different types of lube, but not all of them work equally well for everything, so I’ll explain the differences, tell you what they’re good for, and give some product suggestions. For penetrative sex and sex toys that are going inside me, I try to stick with lubes that have natural ingredients and no possibly unsafe or questionable ingredients.

Oil-Based Lubes

Oil-based lubricants are made of oils, and work great for long-lasting masturbation sessions, bareback sex, or toy play. Silicone toys are usually compatible with oil-based lube formulas, but you may want to avoid using it on vibrating toys with recessed buttons or cracks it’s hard to clean oil out of. Oil-based lubes are not latex condom compatible and can also damage certain masturbators. Here are my faves:

Boy Butter — This has to be my all-time favorite jack-off lube. It’s packaged like butter in a little (or big) plastic tub that makes it easy to scoop out just the amount you need (also in squeeze bottles now!). It goes on pretty thick, but gets super slick and oily pretty quickly. This stuff lasts for awhile and works wonderfully for teasing/edging sessions. I never use this stuff on sex toys, so I can’t comment on how well it works.

Virgin coconut oil — All natural, less processed, extra-virgin coconut oil is the most health-conscious option. Non-hydrogenated oils are less refined, so as to not produce trans-fats – and good coconut oil will contain MCTs, associated with numerous health benefits and fighting bad-bacteria and yeast. Try liquid coconut oil for the smoothest application, and less clumps.

Water-Based Lubricants

Water-based lubes are a must have for any sex toy collection. A good water-based lube will work with any sex toy, they usually don’t stain clothing or linen, and you can use them safely with latex condoms. The main drawback to a water-based lube is it typically dries up much more quickly than other types of lube, so you’ll have to reapply it more often, especially for longer sessions. Here are a few good water-based lubes you should consider:

Sliquid H2O — Sliquid is a great lube company, and their water-based collection has some of the best lubes I’ve tried. Their formulas use simple and natural ingredients, no matter which type of lube you buy from them, so you don’t have to worry about a bunch of weird chemicals that might have an adverse effect on your skin or body. Sliquid’s H2O formula is their basic water-based lube, and it works well with any sex toy that needs lube and can also be used safely on latex (like condoms).

Sliquid Sassy — Sassy is my favorite water-based lube, and one of my all-time favorite lubes, period. It’s similar to Sliquid’s H2O formula, only it has a thicker consistency. This is the lube I like to recommend if you’re using anal toys. It goes on nice and thick and doesn’t run all over; it stays on the toy until you can work it inside your hole, and seems to last a lot longer than many other water-based lubes I’ve tried.

Sliquid Essentials Sampler — Not sure which type of lube you might like best? This 12-pack of samples includes four different water-based formulas, plus trial sizes of Sliquid’s silicone (called Silver) and hybrid (water/silicone blend, called Silk) versions. These 5 ml packets not only offer just enough lube to try it out, but they work great for travel purposes.

Silicone Lubes

Silicone-based lubes are made of—surprise!—silicone, and are great for many things. Since a silicone formula is long-lasting, it’s wonderful for long, sensual masturbation sessions, and this type of lube works great for sex (whether you’re using condoms or not), especially anal sex. The consistency almost makes it feel like you’re using baby oil. I never recommend this type of lube for use with silicone toys, only because many manufacturers say to avoid silicone lubes.

Silicone can also stain more easily than water-based lubes, but I found that a powdered oxygen bleach type of cleaner usually takes care of any staining, when laundering is done in a timely manner. I personally love using silicone lube on my stainless steel anal toys, because it’s so long-lasting and super-slick. Be careful, though; it can make your sleek toys extra slippery and hard to hold on to.

Sliquid Silver — I don’t find a whole lot of difference between one silicone lube and the next, but Sliquid’s lubes have always worked well for me, and I know they don’t put any junk in them. I’ve had a bottle of Silver for awhile and it just seems to last and last.

Uberlube — Another body-friendly silicone-based lubricant that leaves your skin feeling moisturized, never sticky. The handy pump/spray dispenser allows you to easily get just the right amount.

Sliquid Silk — Silk is Sliquid’s version of a silicone/water-based hybrid lube. A hybrid lubricant is perfect for those who like water-based lube but want an extra additive to make it last longer and feel more satiny. It’s perfect, really. If you like your lubes to look and feel like cum, this milky white formula might be right up your alley. Since the amount of silicone in a hybrid lube is fairly minimal, you can use this type of lube with a silicone toy. Sliquid says Silk has been used with some silicone sex toys with no negative effects. 

Special Lubes

System JO Strawberry Flavored Organic — This is a great addition to your lube collection if you’re looking for a flavored lube that doesn’t have a bunch of nasty ingredients. Who wants to put that in their mouth? Sometimes you just want to lick and suck (or get licked and sucked) while the dick is lubed, right? This is the perfect solution, plus it’ll work well with all your sex toys.

Sliquid Sizzle — This is another good water-based lube from Sliquid, for those who want some extra sensation while stroking, having sex, or using a favorite sex toy. There’s a little added food-grade menthol in this formula, for anyone who wants some added stimulation.

Nipple Play: For Everyone

Step “outside the box” and see what nipple toys feel like? It’s a sensitive area for almost everyone.

Blush Temptasia Clit and Nipple System — If you’re into penis pumping, why not use the same techniques to pump and enlarge your nipples? This set of three different sized cylinders work well for using the Blush trigger pump (included) on your nips (they also can be used on a clit as well). The only drawback to this kit is that you can only do one nipple at a time, but having three sizes to play around with will offer you more versatility in the long run.

Black Maxxx Twist Nipple Suckers — If you want to pump both your nipples at once, consider this all-in-one device that allows you to easily twist the air out of the cylinders, creating a vacuum that draws the nipple inside, giving you a sucking sensation. The harder you twist, the more it will suck. Take care not to leave these on too long or pump your nipples for too intensely; you could end up with discomfort or even some bruising.

Hunkyjunk Elong Nipsuckers — These nipple suckers look a little strange, but they offer an easy way to suck and pump your nipples. The cups are fairly large, so they give a broader suction, but still offer a decent amount of pull once you obtain a vacuum. Like with other nipple devices, I like to coat my nipples and the rims/interior with lotion to help get a good seal. These aren’t quite as intense as the pump-style nipple devices, but they tend to work better (for me) if I want a longer session. The ribs on the exterior not only give you something to grip and pull on, but they keep the cups from collapsing in on themselves, giving the user a more uniform suck. The Elong Nipsuckers work with most pierced nipples, too.

Nipple Clamps — Perhaps you’re not that interested in pumping your nips as you are in simply stimulating them. I’ve chosen these clover-style clamps because they’re both adjustable, which means you can tighten them to your desired intensity. Like it more gentle? It’s so easy to clamp down lightly. If you prefer something a little (or a lot) more intense, just tighten the screws for a bigger bite. See the Broad Tip Nipple Clamps for a wider grip than many other clamps. They sport rubber tips for easier grasp and added comfort.

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